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02-12-2006, 01:19 PM
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Everything has some good and bad effects and incidence with me has proved this. I am a divorcee and court has given the custody of our children to both of us means joint custody. I have heard that there are many advantages of divorce as it help in reunion of both the partner. I am against this divorce but forced to sign the papers as my wife divorce from me and for me it was the last chance for me to convinced her. But as days go in joint custody I found it difficult to live with her as she used to do every thing opposite to me and this increases the feud between us. Now I don’t want to live with her but forced to do so as I love my children and can’t live them on the hand of such cruel women.
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02-22-2006, 03:53 AM
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RE:Joint custody......negative aspect
Hi Jebo,
I am really sorry for you as joint custody is turning to be a menace for you. You are absolutely right that every coin has two faces. However, cases like you were joint custody has negative aspect are very rare. I think you are facing this problem because your ex is not coping with you. I think she too don’t like to live with you therefore she is harassing you so that you can live her by your own. So be careful because if you will take initiative and live her then you will not only loose the custody of your child but will also has to pay compensation to your wife.
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02-23-2006, 05:39 PM
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sorry i am slightly confused here, do you still live with your wife? thought joint custody ment that you can live apart and you have the children for a week and then she has them for a week (or which ever you decide) you should be albe to live on your own and still have joint custody
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03-05-2006, 06:05 PM
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Re:Joint custody......negative aspect
Yup, I to agree with Tammy. I myself is living in this arrangement from last 6 months. I don’t think that joint custody means to live in a same house although if couples want than they can. But I don’t think that anyone want to live with one just after divorcing him/her.
However I agreeing with the statement of jebo that everything has some positive and negative aspect. It depends upon you how you are taking it in your life.
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04-25-2006, 10:33 AM
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i really pitty your position it will be better if you stay with your kids dont leave them alone
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06-29-2006, 12:01 PM
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Sorry for you..seems your wife's opposing you just on purpose as she doesn't fancy the idea of you two being together too much..
 she wants you to break down and do something that's gonna cost you the child's custody, for instance,,you must be very careful!! and as tammy said what exactly joint custody meant you just have to live seperately and agree on how many days to keep the children,...
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08-03-2006, 09:05 AM
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You're right when you say it is better to stay with the kids, but can he really do so? Sometimes we can't do everything we want to you know, and things that seem to be the best for us, isn't really the right solution ...
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08-08-2006, 10:40 AM
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well jebo i don't know the real reasons why your wife divorced you neither an going to be on your side and that of your wife..now that you are already divorced, it would be better if you could move to another house...if you don't do so then you will be stress with her behaviours and so will she..and its only the children that will suffer..your children need both parents..they look love and support in you and your wife..try to find a consensus with your wife
Last edited by shasta : 08-08-2006 at 10:45 AM.
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08-11-2006, 05:39 PM
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Staying for the kids is a non-no I did it and trust me they see your unhappiness right through you. Divorce isnt easy but its easiest on chidlren wehn both parents dont fight in front of them even if one loses tehri temper the other shoudl take the higher road in teh end the chidlren will see who was right adn wrong.
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