Hi, new to this site and I'm not sure this is the right forum to post this but I thought I'd start by asking a somewhat sticky question that I'm sure everyone has a strong opinion on. If your marriage ended because your spouse had an affair and the two of them are now married, in what way do you view their relationship? Do you value/respect it because you believe it's also a marriage with a new slate as clean as anyone else's, being that it's been made official with the white dress the 500 guests the rings and music and lovely photos or do you think because this was obviously not an issue when you were the spouse and that the wedding vows are about as sacred as a used paper towel and what comes around surely goes around? Honesty appreciated and thanks in advance for answering!