i have been married for 15 years, recently filed for divorce, through lies and deception, i have finally come to see that my husband was stealing money i had in the house, then i found out he had been using my debit card, all our money is seperate, we have never had joint accounts, i have no trust in this relationship, more as companions, with me as the primary giver, i care for him, but i feel bitter, resentful, so angry with him, i also found out he is 20,000 dollars in credit card debt, he has no explanation, other than he kept charging and hadn't realized where it was taking him, i filed for divorce about 5 weeks ago, and he hasn't left, he has no place to go, i told him i would get him an apartment, i feel as though he has been dependent on me and i have let him for so long that i feel sorry for him and i know i shouldn't for what all he has done to me i still care for him and don't want to see him hurt but where and when will i have happiness if i don't get rid of this mess in my life....