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Old 09-30-2007, 07:09 AM
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Hi everybody, I'm new to all of this. My husband and I have been together for 6 years and married for 2, we have a beautiful 2 year old daughter. Our relationship is going down hill, the spark is gone and don't know how to rekindle it. My husband is very passionate with his lowriding. Last weekend, my husband went cruising with his buddies, Lei was sleeping so I didn't go. Well one of his friend's wife brought her friend (whom he never met before) and since my husband was cruising by himself, had offered her to ride in his car. He told me about it yesterday and she posted a comment on his myspace page which I stumble upon saying she had a great time and she wanted to go cruising again. Now we are fighting about me not trusting him, but that's not the issue. The issue is he's sharing what he loves to do most with another girl when he suppose to share it with me. With our busy schedule we dont have time for each other anymore and it just broke my heart when he told me. Don't I have the right to be upset about that? Am I overreacting?

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Old 10-12-2007, 06:03 PM
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Yes, you are over-reacting. Talk to him about your feelings and that you want to share in his passion, but don't start accusations; he will resent it and may start hiding things from you (even innocent things).
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Old 10-22-2007, 03:11 AM
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It depends on what kind of agreement or talks you have had about this. Would your husband have a pretty good idea if you would get upset about him taking another girl in the car? If the answer is yes, than you have every right to be upset. Would he be upset if you gave a ride to a guy you hardly knew? I would be upset if my husband did that and then this girl posts a message on his myspace. It smells a little fishy. Maybe your husband happen not to mention that he is faithfully married or this girl has no shame and know he's married and still wants to continue this friendship.
You have every right to be upset. I would be too.
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Old 10-23-2007, 10:22 PM
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You should politely discuss your feelings with him. If he cares about you, he will understand.
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