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Old 09-26-2007, 03:48 PM
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Good day all. I am new. Glad I found this forum.

Anyways, my question has to do with scheduling the visitation in a 50/50 custody. My soon to be "X" and I have worked out a schedule that is swapping the kids after two nights and except on weekends, then it's all weekend. Now, it's been going smooth and I "thought" the kids were doing well. This morning I get a "flame" email from my Mother telling me that this is NOT fair to the kids and we should be working on a two-week to one-month schedule to add stability to their lives. Aside from being upset that she did this I am curious what others have done with scheduling time with their kids. Thanks for your input and advice.
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Old 09-27-2007, 12:47 PM
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hey there...

welcome to the forum by the way. am sorry, i don't have any experience with this. maybe one of the other members does, so hang in there.
i just wanted to ask you... how are the children reacting to it?
your mother might be saying that it's not fair on the kids... but to be honest with you, the reactions to be noted are those of the kids. so how are they reacting to the current arrangement?
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