I need some advise here, I have been with this man for 2 years now. His wife walked out on him......we had a house together but she was always interfering in our lives, that I got so frustrated and put it up for sale, he has been telling me for 2 years now he is getting a divorce, the funny thing is they paid for the divorce a year ago June and still they are not divorced....I have my own place and we still see each other, she has backed off so much since we sold the house, she has another man in her life, but wants to control his. The kids start school on Tuesday and they wanted me to come and help get them ready for the first day, and to go to school with them as they will be with their dad that week, he called his wife and told her and she flipped out, and she said she does not want me there. She can not understand why I would even want to be there. I know deep down he feels the same way........so I called him and told him I was not having any part of it at all, they could do it. His comit was I faught with her over you going now you decide not to go, how do you think that makes me feel, this could of all be avoided if you had just say no to begin with. Any advise I would cherrish I am so frustrated with this relationship, and feel that I am being used...........

Shar