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08-21-2005, 02:48 PM
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Destructive anger
Feelings of anger may not last, but we can develop an attitude of anger, which is not actually an emotional thing. It's when we hold on to our anger, offence and resentment, nursing it and feeding it, so it grows. Bitterness can follow on and hardness of heart, an unwillingness to forgive and a desire to hurt someone and make them pay. That sort of anger can be very destructive - it tends to distort our view of reality, making it even harder for us to forgive and heal a relationship. 
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10-15-2005, 07:12 PM
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hi all,
Anger precedes me whenever anybody does wrong to me or my children.. I just feel like getting destructive and breaking all things around me..Many a times I have done it but its becoming worse.. I need to get a hold on this, how do i do it ? Last edited by genie : 12-01-2005 at 04:03 PM.
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10-22-2005, 06:44 PM
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gosh ! I think you need psychiatric treatment or some intensive counselling ..
Maybe behavioral therapy can also help. Please do not neglect this as the situation may get out of control . Wish you all the best. Last edited by genie : 12-01-2005 at 04:06 PM.
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03-24-2006, 08:57 AM
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thats what evry one must understand in anger a person looses his temper
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05-23-2006, 11:24 AM
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Anger can destroy all the relationship u can have... a friend of mine was very angry after his girlfriend and the way he treated her was very choking!!!! I was choked about all those crazy things he said to her!!! And now he regrets all the bad things he said but she doesn`t want to forgive him because she knows that it can happen again, he`s too possessive and she won`t tolerate to be treated like that a 2nd time...
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05-26-2006, 09:55 AM
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Just because you experienced anxiety a moment ago does not mean that you must continue to hold on to it. Choose now to let it go.
You may have recently been angry about one thing or another, yet that destructive anger does not have to continue. Choose now to transform the energy of that anger into positive, healing, productive thoughts and actions. Whatever the past may have held, this moment can be filled with what you choose right now. Peace, acceptance, joy, forgiveness, and positive purpose are all as close as your decision to choose them. Think of the most joyful and fulfilling times you've ever known. Allow yourself to feel the way it feels when you're at your very best. The world is as it is, the people around you are as they are, and this moment is here. You can choose now to face it all with the best you have to give. Life is ever filled with all kinds of possibilities, and this moment is no exception. Choose now to make the most positive of those possibilities a part of who you are.
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06-13-2006, 11:12 AM
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