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Old 08-21-2005, 02:45 PM
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Hello guys,

Anger in marriage ? This is a debatable topic . If one is not really happy in marriage or with the spouse ( who is cheating and betraying )then this emotion rises to the fore.. There are some who have controlled anger and some people who have uncontrollable anger.. These are the ones who have destructive tendencies and when anger takes over , they do all sorts of mindless activities to the point of even killing somebody.. They can be dangerous too. They might regret it later but at the spur of the moment they can do some ghastly act..
For such people, counselling is needed foremost and some therapies like yoga, meditation etc.. to calm them down.
We must keep our anger in check , need to reason out calmly and rationally ..

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Old 10-15-2005, 07:13 PM
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Of course, who would like to live with a person who is always at loggerheads and fighting . the whole atmosphere in the house must be full of tension and stress. Its best that they live seperately. At least there is peace of mind.

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Old 03-24-2006, 09:01 AM
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anger can kill a person is the truth which every one have to understand
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Old 03-24-2006, 10:56 AM
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Anger is a serious issue and has to be dealt with immediately I agree,meditation can work wonders and I could feel the consequences of the calmness that engulfs you during the sessions of meditation.I strongly recommend it to everyone.
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Old 03-24-2006, 04:46 PM
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The situations of infidelty and betrayal will obviously bring anger in the mind of the person who has suffered. They can take a serious turn when such people get violent. Counselling does help them. But who would take them to the counsellor. Do u think that they would be ready to go to a counsellor in the first case?
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Old 05-22-2006, 08:02 AM
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i don't think that they would be ready to go to a counseller in the first case. We can see that they always gave at each a second chance and personnnally i don't think that someone can give them better advice than themselves.
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Old 05-26-2006, 11:04 AM
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Let go of the anger, regret, resentment and pain of what has already happened. Instead, find something real about this moment right now for which you can be truly thankful, and give the best of yourself to it.

Allow life to happen, and the complications of your own making melt away. Allow life to happen, and you are free to fully experience its true richness
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Old 05-30-2006, 06:39 AM
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If you are not able to control your anger then its consequence maybe dreadful...you can kill someone and end up your rest of life in jail...so better be careful...
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Old 05-31-2006, 05:46 AM
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You should control your anger and try to solve the matter between yourself...you should stay calm...if you are unable to do it then you will regret it in the long run...
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Old 06-07-2006, 09:06 AM
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you should distance yourself from angry people asap! nothing good can come of it!!
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