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Old 05-04-2007, 09:37 AM
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I am a woman of 35 years old and I have a child of 6 years old from my first marriage. I have re-married since 5 months now and i can't stand it anymore. I want to kill myself. The man whom I married and whom I thought was very nice was infact only pretending to be a good person!! This man turn out to be a real brute and someone very violent. I did not know to whom I could tell these things and so I am here on this forum telling you about the life of hell I am living!!

My husband beats my child, he is heartless and when I stopped him he beats me also. When I ask him why he beats my son, he tells me that he is not his child and he care a damn about him. My child cry and cry and cry but he continue beating him for no reason. He is an evil incarnated!! I want to stop this but I can't!! I am afraid of him and so is my son. I try to protect my son from his anger but I myself get beaten.

I told him that I will fill a police case against him but he threaten me and tells me that he has many contact and I can't harm him in any way! I fear that if I fill a police case against him he may come to know about it and thus harm either me or my son. Oh, my God!! I will die if he does something to my son.

Please, anybody help me and I will be grateful to you all my life!! Tell me what I must do !! Help me to save my son from this b******,this brute...I am helpless.

Is there any where I can seek help, any centre. I don't quite know about this country because I just immigrated here recently and since then this martyrdom has started and is finishing me.

I don't work and I am helpless and I have put my son's life in danger by marrying this person!! Please will anyone help me???
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Old 05-09-2007, 06:29 AM
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Hello butterfly what you are going through is really a very bad situation but you have to be courageous if you want to save your son because I imagine what he must be going through and it sadden me that he has to go through all these miseries. Please you have to tell the police about what is happening!! Aren't there anyone who can help you there like your neighbours??? YOu know that there are organisations who fight against child abuse?? Get into contact with them!!!
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Old 05-09-2007, 01:33 PM
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Old 05-09-2007, 03:09 PM
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I am a woman of 35 years old and I have a child of 6 years old from my first marriage. I have re-married since 5 months now and i can't stand it anymore. I want to kill myself. The man whom I married and whom I thought was very nice was infact only pretending to be a good person!! This man turn out to be a real brute and someone very violent. I did not know to whom I could tell these things and so I am here on this forum telling you about the life of hell I am living!!

My husband beats my child, he is heartless and when I stopped him he beats me also. When I ask him why he beats my son, he tells me that he is not his child and he care a damn about him. My child cry and cry and cry but he continue beating him for no reason. He is an evil incarnated!! I want to stop this but I can't!! I am afraid of him and so is my son. I try to protect my son from his anger but I myself get beaten.

I told him that I will fill a police case against him but he threaten me and tells me that he has many contact and I can't harm him in any way!
Oh bullshiit...dont you let him scare you with crap like that...I would file charges against him and also file for divorce.
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Old 06-14-2007, 11:29 AM
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maybe you could go to counseling both of you… i’m sure things can go right if you both give enough efforts to it. don’t rush into things. he must be frustrated and he’s taking about everything on the son who is not his. maybe giving him a child is not a bad idea?
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