Divorce - we would share it all

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05-01-2007, 08:16 PM

Alison Morrow Alison Morrow is offline

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my fiancee, or maybe i should say X fiancee, and i used to share our money.
we had some common projects and we would spend on them together.

do i think it was a good idea? no, not at all. i feel like i have wasted my money towards common projects which aren't so common anymore.

i tell myself that i should have waited till we were married to spend money like this with him.

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05-02-2007, 05:37 AM

46 years old widow woman 46 years old widow woman is offline

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Originally Posted by Alison Morrow

what has done has already been done, it is the past.
regrets will make you miserable and this will affect your health.
better not to think of that money.
the love that you hve for him that has made you spend your money for common project.
Alison try not to think about that please. this surely will make you depress.

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05-02-2007, 12:38 PM

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hey Alison... am sorry that you lost your money on this relationship. is there no way of recouping the money? what sort of common projects were they, if you don't mind my asking?
if they were items, can't they be sold and money recouped?

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06-05-2007, 10:18 PM

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man... i used to spend loads on my girlfriends. but that was never reciprocated

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06-09-2007, 11:25 PM

Alison Morrow Alison Morrow is offline

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well some of them were items but the biggest common project was a house

it's not completed yet. i can't see how to get back any money from this unless the house is completed

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06-14-2007, 10:20 AM

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If you invested, then surely you can get it back. You wait until the house is completed and then you can sell it and share the money or you can keep the house or something like that. Don’t despair as there must be a solution in it. You can’t just stay in a relationship because money is involved. If you love him, you stay. If you don’t love him, don’t stay for money.

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