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Old 12-04-2006, 12:40 PM
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My friend told me yesterday that she had a big problem.I was amazed because I always thought that everything was fine in her couple life because she was well dressed and appearing happy.she told me that her husband never give her any money and that she needed to steal money from his pocket to buy food for the family,clothes for herself and the kids.She does not work since she has a slight handicap and wanted to know whether she was doing anything wrong.
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Old 12-05-2006, 01:31 PM
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If she is taking money to buy food and other necessities I do not think that there is anything wrong.However she should not take a large amount because the husband may find out about it.I cannot understand why people are interested in marrying someone if they do not want to spend their money.
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Old 12-11-2006, 05:17 PM
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i truely think that there nothing wrong in spending your husband's money, but she should only be careful not to get caught!! i think that since her husband is not giving her money, then on whom would she rely upon?!! well is there a specific reason as to why he doesnt give her any money? i think that she should at least once try to talk about that, try to find why he doesnt give her money, i think that your friend's husband feels like maybe she spends too much, that's why her husband is unwilling to give her any money.
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Old 12-12-2006, 05:30 AM
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Hmmm that's a tough choice....Stealing is not the best thing to do in life that's for sure. In this case we can understand why she does it. But if she ever gets caught, that's when problems might get bigger! DO you have an idea of why he doesn't want to give her money??
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Old 12-13-2006, 03:53 AM
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i truely think that there nothing wrong in spending your husband's money, but she should only be careful not to get caught!!
stealing money from anyone is not normal

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i think that since her husband is not giving her money, then on whom would she rely upon?!!
Maybe on herself

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well is there a specific reason as to why he doesnt give her any money? i think that she should at least once try to talk about that, try to find why he doesnt give her money, i think that your friend's husband feels like maybe she spends too much, that's why her husband is unwilling to give her any money.
Why didn't you ask this first?
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Old 12-13-2006, 04:37 AM
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Like most of us will certainly agree with, stealing just by itself is wrong...
She could find other means of getting money I think.
But something is intriguing me...She doesn't work, right. She steals money from her husband, ok there. Then she's always well dressed and buys food etc for her children, right. ok. Is her husband blind or something? He doesn't notice anything?? He doesn't notice that she's got money to get well-dressed and to cook food??
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Old 12-13-2006, 04:50 AM
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Like most of us will certainly agree with, stealing just by itself is wrong...
She could find other means of getting money I think.
But something is intriguing me...She doesn't work, right. She steals money from her husband, ok there. Then she's always well dressed and buys food etc for her children, right. ok. Is her husband blind or something? He doesn't notice anything?? He doesn't notice that she's got money to get well-dressed and to cook food??

Yes, the thread is very incoherent and i hope the thread starter will come back to clarify all this. here, it's true the husband is a complete idiot
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Old 12-13-2006, 04:59 AM
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Yes, the thread is very incoherent and i hope the thread starter will come back to clarify all this. here, it's true the husband is a complete idiot
Lol So I'd be almost tempted to say that she can go on taking the money, he will never notice anyway!
But no, don't take this as such, according to me there can be other ways she gets money. What type of handicap has she got she's not able to work, but she's not handicapped enough to steal money! I think she doesn't WANT to work. Sorry to say...
She could, for example, make some work from home itself...that would keep her busy, she could sell some hand-made things if she's into art (even a little bit), she then would have her money, and then also she'd get it honestly!!
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Old 12-13-2006, 05:19 AM
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Lol So I'd be almost tempted to say that she can go on taking the money, he will never notice anyway!
But no, don't take this as such, according to me there can be other ways she gets money. What type of handicap has she got she's not able to work, but she's not handicapped enough to steal money! I think she doesn't WANT to work. Sorry to say...
She could, for example, make some work from home itself...that would keep her busy, she could sell some hand-made things if she's into art (even a little bit), she then would have her money, and then also she'd get it honestly!!
She's selling her husbands personal things on ebay, maybe? Thus, she makes a lot of money. Yes, it's true she can go on stealing the money He won't even notice ... maybe she brings guys in the house when he's not here, its the easiest way to have money
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Old 12-13-2006, 05:25 AM
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She's selling her husbands personal things on ebay, maybe? Thus, she makes a lot of money. Yes, it's true she can go on stealing the money He won't even notice ... maybe she brings guys in the house when he's not here, its the easiest way to have money
Do you think it can be so?? ..hmm hey that's not very nice of us to be ironic about this..what d'you think? .. Well I don't know, the story is almost becoming funny to me.
Maybe she really has big big problems forcing her to do all she does...?
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