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Old 11-18-2006, 05:46 AM
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LOL I wished I had said NO. Let me tell you from experience girls, 3 strikes and your out! It doesn't get better each time, in fact I think it gets worse. I guess I just can't pick them right, so therefore no more marriage from now on.

Stay single and enjoy yourself and your freedom. Concentrate on your very own happiness and control your own life. Thats my best advice from experience.


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Old 11-18-2006, 06:59 AM
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I'm single right now. Do you really think it's a good thing or are you talking out of your bad experiences? I enjoy being single lots, but i feel like someday i will want to have a stable life ...
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Old 11-18-2006, 07:31 AM
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Even if i had a terrible shock, i started dating again recently. Do you think it is a bad thing? I know i'm not prepared from some situations, but i want to forget about what had happened to me
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Old 11-22-2006, 11:00 AM
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Before giving up you should try to see life differently. If you choose the same type of guy each time for exampl, you have more "chance" to live the same experience every time. Try different approaches to your marriage life. It's nice to be single, but don't you think you'll feel very lonely at some point? I think it's good to take some time for ourselves...but personally I won't be able to stay single very long...I need some company, some love sometimes...
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Old 11-22-2006, 01:20 PM
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Before giving up you should try to see life differently. If you choose the same type of guy each time for exampl, you have more "chance" to live the same experience every time. Try different approaches to your marriage life. It's nice to be single, but don't you think you'll feel very lonely at some point? I think it's good to take some time for ourselves...but personally I won't be able to stay single very long...I need some company, some love sometimes...

Who do you think you are? If she wants to switch off for the time being, that's her prob. She may think about smtg else later. Right now, she may be really affected

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Old 11-23-2006, 04:42 AM
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Hi Maria. Yeah I guess at some point you might feel fed up with trying and getting to no positive point. I'm sorry to know you have gone through these several times. It's normal to wanna be on your own for some time...and enjoy life to its maximum. I guess you need this first to be able to start some other things and relationships if you ever want to, again...
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Concentrate on your very own happiness and control your own life. Thats my best advice from experience.
I think you're right, take care of yourself first. Feel good inside and it's only then that you manage to have more control over other issues.

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Hi Maria. Yeah I guess at some point you might feel fed up with trying and getting to no positive point. I'm sorry to know you have gone through these several times. It's normal to wanna be on your own for some time...and enjoy life to its maximum. I guess you need this first to be able to start some other things and relationships if you ever want to, again...
I think you're right, take care of yourself first. Feel good inside and it's only then that you manage to have more control over other issues.
Amen! Thanks God Luka's here I like your answer very much and i guess Maria_50 has made the right choice for the time being
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Old 12-13-2006, 05:58 AM
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All women should be strong enough to say no because a lot of guys like yo play with women's heart. We are so vulnerable, so sensitive that they don't even care about our feelings. I wish all guys stop playing once for all. Women deserve to be happy.
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Old 12-18-2006, 11:22 AM
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hi maria 50, i guess that right now you are finding life to be beautiful in being single, and i agree with you that sometimes you should live life your own way with noone telling you what you ought to do and you feel like you're trapped!!it's good to feel like a free bird and you are so lucky to have this freedom, so enjoy it to the maximum!!
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Old 04-04-2007, 09:11 AM
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Are you sure celibacy is a good idea? Marriage is supposed to be a good thing; we support each other and love each other, care for each other and do our best to make the happiness of the other. Why are you so sure that marriage is not a good thing? I mean, I know some marriages went bad but does it mean that all marriages go bad?
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