So in some way you are saying that God abandoned you, and that is why all this is happening to you? Am I right? You no more believe in religion, have I well understood?
Faith is also about never losing it in hard times. Faith is most important eSPECIALLY in very hard moments, the word itself has more power at these times! I think you should not lose faith in whatever you believe in, that you know makes you stronger. Keeping the faith will be what will help you out, contrary to what you might be hinking right now! Don't give up too...

I understand what titi is saying because right now I am at a point in my life where nothing is going right and I don't understand why my wife started to get drunk like this and to abuse me every day physically and verbally and even tried to kill me. And I though that when we were close together and praying together that everything was great.

What is this?

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Hello Titi, how do you feel today? I don't think God has left you out with all your problems. Perhaps should you seek for him now that you are going through hard situations. I can understand how you feel...
When such things happen to you, you feel like you're all alone on this earth and are the only ones to go through the hardest moments. But it's not true, don't give up faith and hope. Everything's bound to be right again. Don't worry about that. Have you talked to your parents? Are they aware of how you really inside?
JKyle, that is a very sad story...I think you told about your experience on another thread?

Whenever adversities strike upon us we ask ourselves why only us?????? But there is no one to answer to our question. We tend to think that god has abandoned us but this is not the truth. god is always with us but there are times when he tests us to see if we can bear all that. I also have never understood why he gives us happiness and suddenly crashes everything. But whatever happens we must never lose faith in god.

In life everything happens for a reason. Bad things do not happen necessarily for bad reasons. Of course now you feel like everything's going wrong, you're the only one in the situation, no one and nothing could take you out of it. But you must have faith in yourself and in whatever you believe in. No life is perfect because God is there. In life we meet obstacles and bad experiences, and that IS WHY God is ALSO there!

It is not that you are going through difficult situations that you should blame god.It is up to you to know Him first and to know his ways then He will help you to go through all your adversities and difficulties.If you keep on blaming him i do not think that you will succeed in going a long way in your life,So try to wait on Him and he will help you.

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I don't think God has let you down. In life there are ups and downs, big ups and big downs. No life is perfect and unfortunately we have to go through difficult times sometimes. It can be just God's test to see how much faith we have in Him, how long our faith lasts... It can be life's test to see how strong we are. For whatever reason it might be, we never have only good times in our life, and we must face the difficult situations.

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hi titi, i dont see why you are blaming GOD for all these, the problem has been in your family itself, that they were unable to assume their own responsibilities, i believe if your family would have been able to sort those things out, you would have said that GOD is really kind to have saved the disasters. well i think that all this was due to happen, and that it was all destiny, i just hope that you'll still have faith in GOD!!