Dear friends,

I am in a serious relationship problem, seeking advice of you guys about the complex problem I created.

I was in a relationship with my gf since last 5 years. Last year bcoz of acute pressure from family and serious problems at home I asked her to go away from my life.. little illogical but that was the big issue to marry a girl of different caste. I was not ready for that but situation at home was so complex that it would take a lot of space explaining here. In frustration and anger I said many bad things to her. Later few months she continuously tried to persuade me to not to do that but I was very adament. I don't know why and how I did that but my feelings was almost dead that time.

Later I was not able to make any relation with any girl.. not bcause I didnt try but bcoz I felt I am only for her.. I realize She is the only one with whom I can be happy.. I felt guilty and started missing her terribly.

I inquired about her and got to know that she was not seeing anyone. But now she doesn't want me back. I am trying hard to get her back.. but she is not agree with me, just like I did with her.. she is saying that now she did not have any feeling for me..

some common friends also tired to talk to her and I got to know that she had very hard time coping with the situation without me and she doesnt want to get hurt anymore. She is also too angry the way I handled the situation. Per her there could be some better way but now her she has lost the trust on me.

Please suggest how can I get her back.. I really love her and want to erase whatever I did in past. I am ready to do the best I can.. but I dont want to loose her.


with thanks in advance.
Ronnie