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Old 10-26-2006, 07:16 AM
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That you can fall out of love with your partner? Or is it something that they have done that ruins your relationship?
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Old 10-26-2006, 07:37 AM
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Most of the time it's about partner having done something to hurt his/her gf/bf. But it can happen that you fall in love with someone else for example...but that gets us back to the fact that perhaps the other person has something more than your actual partner... Hmmm I think it's due to some negative behaviour reaction from either partner...most of the time...
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Old 11-03-2006, 10:57 AM
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I think it's mostly that something happened between the couple that made the relationship go wrong somewhere, and THEN you fall out of love. Like because of that. It is in most cases. Or else, I think if you fall out of love, it's that you never were at the start, actually...
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Old 11-06-2006, 09:39 AM
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I really dont think that you can fall out of love, i think that they werent really in love in the first place. I do honestly believe in true love.
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Old 11-06-2006, 11:28 AM
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Either you love someone, or you don't. Usually you stop loving someone after the break-up where you just force yourself to stop loving him or her, if it is difficultto forget or get over him or her. SO I honestly don't think this can happen inside the relationship itself unless for some strange particular reason, one of the partners forced himself or herself to stop loving the other.
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Old 11-08-2006, 05:20 AM
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I agree with Josh, I think the only time you stop loving your partner is when your forced to ie: he/she leaves you. I think if he/she left you he/she was never truley in love with you in the first place.
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Old 11-08-2006, 07:49 PM
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I really dont think that you can fall out of love, i think that they werent really in love in the first place. I do honestly believe in true love.

Me too I believe in true love and i find difficult that somebody can fall out of love. It does not stand... For somenone who 'stops' loving his/her partner is because the person have done something wrong or as you said, I agree with you the person was not really in love with the other...
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Old 11-24-2006, 06:57 PM
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Wow.. I am the minority here. I think that you can fall out of love with someone. YOu may still love that person, but to be in love... you can fall out of being in love. It almost definetly has to do with something that you did or that they did to make that happen, it just doesn't happen like that.
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Old 12-07-2006, 08:08 AM
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That you can fall out of love with your partner? Or is it something that they have done that ruins your relationship?

When we fall out of love, our partner has automatically done something to ruin the relationship i guess, so it's the same thing. Both go together and it is very easy to fall out of love and it hurts a lot when we realise that this has happened to us, do you agree people?

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Old 04-04-2007, 12:19 PM
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It may be something a partner has done or has NOT done. If the partner neglects and makes himself distant, I’m sure you would automatically be distant. Or maybe there are too many unresolved issues that keep adding to the pile that makes you “heal” from your blind love. This is very complicated and differs from person to person.

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