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View Poll Results: Has alcohol ruined your realtionships?
Yes. 4 36.36%
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Old 10-23-2006, 09:03 AM
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Just curious how many realationships has it ruined and why?
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Old 10-24-2006, 01:45 PM
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I have never got this problem
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Old 10-25-2006, 05:12 AM
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That's how my parents' relationship got ruined... That's why they live kinda separated... That's why I kinda hate my dad...
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Old 11-08-2006, 01:46 PM
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That's how my parents' relationship got ruined... That's why they live kinda separated... That's why I kinda hate my dad...
I got the same problem at home stacey... My dad too was drinking a lot, and that made the seperation of my parents, that made me feel sad but it was the best thing to do to stop seeing my dad from getting drunk!!!
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Old 11-13-2006, 07:03 AM
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I never had this problem and I hope that I will never have it but I have seen some of my friends marriage being ruined because of this. Kids being beaten wife or husband (yes husbands) being ill treated by the significant over., A hellish life. I have seen this through my friends and I can assure you that it is not a pretty thing to see
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Old 11-13-2006, 07:14 AM
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Yeah, husbands being ill-treated also exist. For sure these must be awful situations, of which, if you manage to get out, might be traumatising to you. I knew some cuoples like that too. But they stayed together. I don't really know what became of them, if they got through this prob or not. what happened to your friends, zach? How did they deal with the problem?
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Old 11-24-2006, 10:12 AM
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alcohol has ruined many households. it leads to conflicts and fights but yet people consume it. it ruins health and even kills mercilessly but yet you find it at every occasions. parties seem to be lifeless without alcohol. what type of world are we living in????? where are we leading to??
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Old 11-27-2006, 10:32 AM
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It's true that nowadays alcohol has become hugely important to some events. We can see it specially among teenagers lately, where they feel they're not "cool" or they'll not be able to enjoy themselves to the max if they don't drink. Actually that's a very stupid way of thinking. But that's how it has progressed in their minds...
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it was the best thing to do to stop seeing my dad from getting drunk!!
Yea you must be right, but actually my parents live in the same house but like they do separate rooms and all...So anyway, I see him...
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Old 12-06-2006, 09:39 PM
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Yes I believe it had a hand in ruining my marriage. My stbx is an acholic
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Old 12-07-2006, 04:37 AM
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I have never got that problem, but i had a lot other type of issues in my life. Each of us has different problems. My girl friend's mummy is an alcoholic though and this hurts me a lot when she is sad
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