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Old 10-17-2006, 08:38 AM
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For doing something wroung? My neice was here earlier and was pulling all my glass ordements off my shelves and throwing them. She is 6 years old! Old enough to know what she was doing. Do you think its innapporpriate to give her a few quick smacks on the behind?
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Old 10-17-2006, 09:16 AM
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She is 6 years old! Old enough to know what she was doing.
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Old 10-17-2006, 09:28 AM
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Maybe you should put your shelves higher, to start with, and avoid putting glass or any fragile things on there. These are things that should be put out of reach of small children! It's rather normal at her age to touch, throw away and break everything.
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First of all i agree with stacey, you must avoid putting fragile things in a house where there is a child.

Then, i agree with splash too, If you think she's old enough to know these things, she should be old enough to receive some smacks as you say

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Old 10-17-2006, 05:03 PM
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She had to climb the shelves to knock the glass figures down! She ran around knocking books of the sleves, throwing magaizines around!! Its not like i have the glass ordements just waiting for her to knock over. Its not like she is 2 and does know, she is in school for bloody hells sake!
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Old 10-19-2006, 08:28 AM
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I would talk to her mum and if she is okay with it, i would smack that child bottom so hard that it would be bright red!!!
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I would talk to her mum and if she is okay with it, i would smack that child bottom so hard that it would be bright red!!!

You're not nice I don't like people who beat children. This is called child abuse, you can go in prison for this. Think about it

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Old 10-23-2006, 11:53 AM
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When a child's naughty, I think that before giving him some punition of any kind, we should try first, to talk to the child and make him or her understand WHY it is bad to do such things or any other! If you just punish him or her, and he or she doesn't even know why, he will never understand why he or she should not do that again!
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Old 10-26-2006, 06:39 PM
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i agree with wish.it would have been better to explain to the child what is right and what is wrong b4 punishing her.
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Its not like she is 2 and does know, she is in school for bloody hells sake!
as u said it urself she quite old enough so maybe she would have understood
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Old 10-27-2006, 04:47 AM
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Wish's right. I think she raised an important point here, I watched a program once about how to deal with hyperactive and real disobedient children! And the person said that EXPLAINING to a child WHY he has done this or that is very important, so that he knows he is not being punished for nothing. SO that he learns something from it also.
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