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Old 10-09-2006, 05:01 AM
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There must be some members of the forum who remember me. Yes, i'm the one my grandparents tried to send to hospital. They think i'm insane. I would like to tell you first of all that they did not succeed. I'm a very strong person and thanks God Sam is always there for me. I'm so scared sometimes, so scared that it makes me want to run away from their house, but i must stay here because my parents may come back. I'm sure they will come back. Sam told me that he met them in the bakery the other. I'm still waiting for them though and this hurts a lot.
You willl never imagine what happened to me last night. My grandpa came to my room and sat on my bed while i was supposed to sleep. He kissed me on the forehead and then started caressing my cheeks. I was horrified, i never thought my grandpa would do something like this to me. So, i opened my eyes and started to scream. I screamed so loud that i think he was scared. I felt really cold while i was screaming, i was so tensed, scared and angry. Fortunately Sam ran to my room and saved me from him. He used the lamp again and i was relieved when i saw my granpa's head bleeding.
Although Sam is always here to protect me, i'm scared sometimes. I don't want my grandpa to try to abuse me again, i know he won't stop. Both my grandpa and grandma are weird. Please people help me. What should i do?
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Old 10-09-2006, 05:12 AM
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Hi Tania. I'm quite new on this forum, so I can't remember you. Nice to meet you. I quite understood your story, but I miss some details though. Could you please just give me some more info like who is Sam? Why do you still stay with your grand parents? etc. We are here to help. You are on the right forum. And I am glad to be here for you too and help to the maximum!! Hold on Tania, you are not alone.
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Old 10-09-2006, 06:14 AM
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Hello Tania.

Nice to see you again on the forum. Where had you been? I'm glad you came back. I'm so sorry that you are hurt again. Apart from kissing you on the forehead and caressing your cheeks, did your grandfather do something else?
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Old 10-17-2006, 08:36 AM
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so your grandpa was problably saying goodnight to you, my grandpa kisses my check everytime i see him and he comes an watches me sleep. Although i spent half my life growing up with my grandparents.
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Old 10-17-2006, 09:13 AM
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2330, I think here Tania has gone through real hard and horrible situations with her grandparents before, that's why she reacts like that even to only a slight kiss on the forehead...
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Old 10-18-2006, 04:49 AM
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I send you lots of hugs Tania, i hope that your situation will be clearer very soon and that you will be okay.

I'm praying for you

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Old 10-18-2006, 05:10 AM
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Tania, are your parents aware of that?
What do they say?? Why are they gone so long?
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Old 10-18-2006, 05:32 AM
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My parents are dead and i'm sure you're their friend, heaven, i feel it in your words. You are doing as if you don't know what is happening and what happened to me when you know everything. You want to hurt me, i'm sure you want to hurrt me, i will kill myself before you do.
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Old 10-18-2006, 05:39 AM
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Tania, are your parents aware of that?
What do they say?? Why are they gone so long?
Heaven, don't you think that you should read threads properly before replying. You must be the only one who doesn't know that her parents are dead.

Hello Tania, don't care about heaven hun because she doesn't know what she is talking about. I'm sure she can't do any harm to you. She may be very far from you. Why don't you come on the forum more frequently to share what is happening to you?
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Old 10-18-2006, 06:22 AM
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Oh Gosh, ok I guess I'll go and have a good sleep and then come back! I'm sorry Tania, I really didnt know, I'm obviously missing out everything today. I'm sorry, sorry, sorry.... Think I must shut up today....
I honestly find what happened to you terrible, and I am far from wanting you any hurt. I just wanted to try helping but it might not be the proper day for me to do so. So I just buzz off for now, I feel useless, and quite hurting today (and I'm really not meaning to be so.....) sorry again
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