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Old 10-06-2006, 08:17 AM
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Is homosexuality genetic or due to environmental factors, particular experiences, or any other-than-genetic reasons? That question is much controversial till now! But what are YOUR opinions about the matter? Do you think this is because of one or the other, and why? Do you have experience of the issue to be able to assert this is due to the reason you mentionned? Or do you know of anyone who is homosexual, who's life story enables you to be sure about the reason you gave?

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Old 10-06-2006, 08:29 AM
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How do you become homosexual? Stacey you want to learn how to become homosexual? It's useless girl, if you're straight, you'll remain straight.

I think environmental factors bring a lot to homosexuality

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Old 10-06-2006, 08:32 AM
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I think that girls who are not given enough affection from their mother become lesbian ( they seek affection with other girls) and boys who don't have enough affection from their dad trryto find it with other guys. That may be one of the facts isn't it?
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Old 10-06-2006, 09:12 AM
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Emotional shock
Lack of affection
Environment
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Born homosexual

We can have different factors according to me, it depends on the person
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Old 10-06-2006, 09:32 AM
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Na Capuccino I don't want to become gay. 'kay is it that my expression problems are getting worse or can't we understand ourselves at all?? I'm just fascinated by the subject, doesn't mean I need to be as such.

Splash, can you be more specific when you talk about environment, please?

When you say born homosexual, are you talking about genetic factors?
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Old 10-06-2006, 09:38 AM
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Now that i think about it, maybe i'm gay, that is why girls don't want me. Oh no, i would have never imagined that. I'm terribly shocked now Maybe i like men more than women
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Old 10-06-2006, 11:37 AM
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huh nope I think it would go the other way round! If you did not want girls, then there would be a possibility that you are gay, even for that it's not sure. Don't be shocked for something you are just supposing, dear friend!! I am sure you are not gay But even if you were, there would not be any problem regarding this!
Having met girls who only think stupidly doesn't mean you're gay!!!
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Old 10-06-2006, 11:44 AM
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Hi everyone, Hi Splash Do you think it's really important to know how you become gay? I only started wondering about that when I came on this forum These are questions that never crossed my mind before!! Why is it important to know this?
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Old 10-06-2006, 11:58 AM
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[color="RoyalBlue"]Do you think it's really important to know how you become gay?
Maybe it's a good thing to know because some of the persons aren't really gay, they just need affection. It's always good to know why each of us react in a particular way anyway, don't you think?
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Old 10-06-2006, 12:14 PM
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yes ok you must be right. but if I'm sure I am homosexual, then why should I try to find out if I really am, and how it came??
I tried with guys, I tried with 3, who truely loved me (I had that chance!), but I finally concluded I preferred girls..! None of them (the 3 hetero-relationships) worked cause of my tendencies

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