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Old 09-27-2006, 09:07 AM
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After a divorce, what do usually the children think of their parents girlfriend or boyfriend? It is possible for some of them to accept them right from the start? What common problem are there with divorcees children according to you? Are there parents who leave their partners beucase of their children?
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Old 10-03-2006, 04:33 PM
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I Have only heard a case where a parent was forced to split with her partner because the children did not accept him.They view the guy as someone that was stealing the place of their father.
The mother was forced to split because she wanted to please her children.
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The common problem is that they become heart broken and never ever see their parents happy again together like before. This is a terrible shock for them and it hurts. I firmly advise people who are getting married to think twice before doing so, and think twice before having children assuming that all relationships do not work really
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Old 10-19-2006, 08:11 AM
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I think it depends on the child, some kids take it no problem, others make thier parents lives a living hell. It depends on the age of the child, how spolit he/she is and just what decisions they make in life. Each kid is differet.
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Does difference between children reduce hurt? I mean, if you're a strong child, it means you don't suffer? You can face the truth more easily, but you're very affected too for sure. One thing i'm sure is that no matter how strong you are, you are still hurt by your parents separation and it's not very easy to accept someone else as 'spare' mother or father
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Old 11-14-2006, 07:27 AM
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I think it's very rare for a child to accept his dad's new gf or mum's new bf right from the start. He or she might think that new person is intruding and I think most of the time they still have hope that their parents come back together. So they might feel that the new gf or bf is the hindering factor to this possibility.
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And it's even more difficult to accept that your parents are leading a dirty life, that they sleep with their friend's wife, vice versa ... I think they do more than that, but i don't even want to think about it ... that may be why they sent me here
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i think it is necessary to take each specific case into consideration before asking the question of whether or not the child will take the arrival of a new person in the parent's life positively.
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