09-23-2007, 06:14 AM
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Relationship Newbie
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Posts: 11
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Originally Posted by Tornado
Can a divorce be considered as a positive thing in life?Yes. What are the things that your have learnt in your divorce, parents divorce or even friends divorce?That it shouldn't be left until things explode. Its unfortunate, the divorce can't happen earlier and avoid the resentments and degradation years. If kids are in the house, its even more of a reason to end it. Seems men put thier head in the sand and women will be clinging to another man to offer his "nest of new hope". Its usually done to late, in short. We always talk about the disadvantages of a divorce, what about the advantages now? I think the prevention for divorce is all done before the marriage. Unfortunately, people look at seminars and classes as a negative. So they ignorantly, emotionally, sexually go into a commitment based off humping and warm fuzzy feelings. The advantages are obvious. People don't live with someone they hate. If kids are there they don't live in a home with two people that hate each other. Thats as good as it gets.
I'm not married yet and i hope i won't have to divorce coz i love my boy friend lots. A friend of mine got married at 17 and she divorced a year and 2 mths after, she told me that she learnt somethign very important: " Never get married too young!!!" I'd ask whats there if the humping disappeared. not to be crass, but there better be more than hot steamy sex for a marriage. just kdding!! kind of?
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we were talking at work the other night and someone said "guys aren't really worth a *Censored **Censored **Censored **Censored * until after their 24yrs old!!" we all laughed and shook our heads..yeah. we're much older, and some say hindsight is 20/20.
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