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Old 12-07-2006, 09:07 AM
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It is strange but when i read what some people write, it seems like they know what they are talking about, others want us to think that they know what they talk about and some just agree Really funny
hum.. ok have fun..wa-ha-ha.

I've not gone through divorce and I don't wanna go through it one day.
Advantages of divorce...It makes you learn more about yourself, perhaps what you're really looking for, too. It makes you stronger. Fortunately divorce exists in some way. Cause errors exist.Let's say we have made an error by doing a specific marriage, let's assume divorce didn't exist, oh my God! Lol. How would we get out of this. Divorce is somehow an advantage in itself.
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Old 12-07-2006, 10:22 AM
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Let's say we have made an error by doing a specific marriage, let's assume divorce didn't exist, oh my God! Lol. How would we get out of this. Divorce is somehow an advantage in itself.
Hello tru colors

Well, we would all be sitting around a table playing domino at the asylum and we would bang our head on the wall and so on, you know what i mean huh?
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Old 12-07-2006, 08:45 PM
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Well...that is a hard one. My parents divorced when I was a young child, and it was probably the right thing because they had a bad relationship. But it was definitely hard on us kids, because I always had so many insecurities about marriage. Then I got married at 20 years old, and am now 24 and not happy, and in a very confused scary place. I think that getting married young is not a good thing. You change so much in your 20's, and even if you find the best person on the earth it still doesn't always work out. I am not sure what is going to happen with me, but its sad.
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Old 12-08-2006, 03:39 AM
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Yes, that's true, we never know what can happen to us mountain25 .... We can be really in love for 3 mths, 6 mths, a year, 2 yrs and fall out of love after 3 yrs or as we get married ... All this is sad, but we get much experience from life and we must learn from it. We must always lift our head up
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Old 12-08-2006, 04:01 AM
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Hi thereeee!! Ms. BB (Brain Bug) is back for some time! How are you all??
Well, perhaps it would be a very good thing if my parents divorced, cause my dad has been hurting her a lot in different ways, due to his alcoholic drinks addiction. I guess they'd be better off on their own, each of them I mean. But there's my lil 4-years-old bro, and this could affect him...(Though the hurting thing is already affecting him I'm sure). And I guess there's some attachment between the two, especially from my mum..and that's why they don't separate.
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Old 12-08-2006, 04:08 AM
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Hello Stacey

It's so sad to hear that your mommy is going through bad times with your father. Hope that your cute little 4 years old brother will be safe from all this, that you will help him to the maximum coz you are a mature woman.

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Old 12-08-2006, 04:14 AM
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Hello my friend, yeah I will protect him as much as I can, I would do the impossible for him and my sis actually. Thanks for saying I'm mature! Indeed I must be, or this family of mine could turn out to be even worse than it kind of already is... Thank you for your support Pixie sweety.
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Old 12-08-2006, 04:17 AM
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You're welcome Stacey sexy Where have you been? I read that you had a motorcylcle accident? Was it serious? How many days did you stay in hospital?

You are great, i wish i had a sis like you

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Old 12-08-2006, 04:36 AM
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Uh? Who said I had a motorcycle accident?? What the heck?? lolllll Perhaps I had one and was in coma for several days, plus I lost memory or something...but I don't think so!! I was just not home...'Cause guess what... I've been finding a temporary job!! I'm finally working for some time in a Clothes Shop..!!! I'm so happy!!! (though it's really not my type of job, but I kinda like it, plus the Approching Christmas atmosphere and all oh I LOVE that period..)
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Old 12-13-2006, 06:47 AM
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Uh? Who said I had a motorcycle accident?? What the heck?? lolllll Perhaps I had one and was in coma for several days, plus I lost memory or something...but I don't think so!! I was just not home...'Cause guess what... I've been finding a temporary job!! I'm finally working for some time in a Clothes Shop..!!! I'm so happy!!! (though it's really not my type of job, but I kinda like it, plus the Approching Christmas atmosphere and all oh I LOVE that period..)
that's cool stacey, if you are happy with it, that's a great thing. You will be able to have some money for the approaching events. Divorce really helps the persons who are not in love anymore, i've been suffering for years with someone that i don't love because of money, but now i 'm okay, but i feel a little bit guilty
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