Actually, my boyfriend is in Australia and i should join him there very soon. I have some visa problems and i hope things will work out fine, then we'll be able to chose an a ring. Is that a good thing to wait that we solve all the problems first?

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“Ordinary riches can be stolen, real riches cannot. In your soul are infinitely precious things that cannot be taken from you.”

Merry xmas to Oscar Wilde

I never saw the situation on this angle. You are so right green ... But all of us are not the same and there are various things that can affect different people after different divorce, but with hope and positiveness, you can fight anything

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I destroy everything around me
just like a tornado

I think that divorce can be a terrible disaster as well as a very good thing in a person's life. So let us avoid letting us down when we lost something in our life, even if it is great according to us ... We may find something better afterwards. I realized that i was wrong all the way, losing so much time ... I feel silly now

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Sometimes it can be a very bad experience for some persons, sometimes it can be very good for others...It all depends on the circumstances and reasons for divorce...Some have gone through very difficult times during married life, and it's for the better that they divorce. Others perhaps still loved each other but divorced due to some particular events and situations that "forced" them to do so... Anyway I believe that in the end, it generally happens for the best for the person.

I just wish that everyone will be able to be happy someday and that divorce will be eradicated on earth because it can be considered as a terrible virus. Hope that all the people on the forum and everywhere around the world keep the faith

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well a divorce has its disadvantages as well as its advantages, and your friend is absolutely right, that you should never get married too young, i think this was a hasty decision of hers. well i'm married yet too but what i've learnt from the divorce cases is that you do have some advantages, it makes you more confident, independent, and you learn to take all your responsibilities, but that doesnt mean that divorce is a good thing, it has a real bad impact on your life, those who overcome that are really lucky!!!

For people who are quarelling all the time, it is a very good thing to divorce. To enjoy life, we should all be a little bit realistic, don't you think? What if you quarrel all the time with your wife and stay with her, is it a good thing? How long will you try to sort things out? By the time you try all this, you will spoil your life, her life and your children's life

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If you want something said, ask a man...if you want something done, ask a woman - Margaret Thatcher

It's for the best if the relationship turned out to be a terrible one, filled with fights, mutual incomprehension, abuse and any other issues "destroying" the couple and the partners individually. Divorce makes you see life in some other aspects, that can make you stronger.

It is strange but when i read what some people write, it seems like they know what they are talking about, others want us to think that they know what they talk about and some just agree Really funny

Anyway i'm just me and i would like to say that divorce destroy children's life above all like someone said previously

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Capital is dead labor, which, vampire-like, lives only by sucking living labor, and lives the more, the more labor it sucks