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Old 09-26-2006, 09:24 AM
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Is is good to express yourself sexually in front of your child? I mean touching your husband/wife in front of them? What is the limit according to you? For example, can you lick your partner's neck in front of a kid?
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Old 09-27-2006, 10:17 AM
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No lol there are some things very personal that you must not show your children of course. No sexual things in front of them please!!! What is the point of this question?
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Old 09-27-2006, 01:03 PM
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I think that theres a limit which we must not go beyond. We must show some signs of affection - but to some extent. We must show our kids what it means to hold hands, a kiss. One must rememeber that kids are so innocent, and they can be shocked by some adult stuff. Lets make this world a better world.
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Old 09-28-2006, 05:39 AM
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Licking your partner's neck in front of your child may not be that good for children @ MAeva. What are the adults thing that we must not show to children , is there an example?
I think excessive sensual kissing is too much in front of children.
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Undress yourself in front of your child is okay i think. You can even take a shower with your child. It is recommended by specialits isn't it?
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Old 09-28-2006, 11:36 AM
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an affection kiss on the lips and peck on the cheek and holding hands and hugging...those are the things that i personally feel are ok to do in front of the kids but it shouldn't go beyond that.
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A real big affectionate hug will show your child how much you love his mum/dad and he will learn at the same time that love is very important in life isn't it?
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Old 09-29-2006, 09:46 AM
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A real big affectionate hug will show your child how much you love his mum/dad and he will learn at the same time that love is very important in life isn't it?
i feel the same way Capuccino. it does give the child a positive feeling of love and affection, doesn't it?
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Old 09-29-2006, 09:56 AM
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I think that theres a limit which we must not go beyond. We must show some signs of affection - but to some extent. We must show our kids what it means to hold hands, a kiss. One must rememeber that kids are so innocent, and they can be shocked by some adult stuff. Lets make this world a better world.
I agree with this, your child needs to know what a loving marriage is about, kissing and hugging, maybe the occasional bum squeez. But anything else NO!

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Undress yourself in front of your child is okay i think. You can even take a shower with your child. It is recommended by specialits isn't it?
Are you out of your bloody mind!!?! Showering with your child...

I could see it now...

Grade 1: Show and Tell....

John honey its your turn to share... Well Ms. Smith I was showering with daddy last night and his *blank* is THIS BIG...

Teacher faints....
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Old 10-02-2006, 01:35 PM
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Are you out of your bloody mind!!?! Showering with your child...

I could see it now...

Grade 1: Show and Tell....

John honey its your turn to share... Well Ms. Smith I was showering with daddy last night and his *blank* is THIS BIG...

Teacher faints....
It is totally recommendable that children shower with their parents. Teachers should be aware of it normally. Actually, nudity shouldn't be a taboo between your child and yourself. I completely agree with tornado. You have the right to have another point of view though and i like the way you express it. I really appreciated this special moment.
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