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09-21-2006, 06:29 AM
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Since my wife has started working, a lot of her behaviors have changed….clothings, fixing her hair ( when before she could care less).
She spends a lot of time in the lengthy meeting with those big managers of the company. She is the confidential secretary. Often I can’t reach her by cell phone. Odd hours "unknown caller" on the caller ID…her cell phone call list always erased. She says they are only colleagues and it’s her job, & she has no interest in them. And the other day, I really wanted to have sex with her although she very rough I did it and she said I rape her. We had an argument about that issue and since then things are going on very bad between us. This is killing me inside, how can she say horrible things like that. I had a very sick feeling at that point she is cheating on me…. Am I thinking to hard here…..or might there be a problem?? 
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09-21-2006, 06:16 PM
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Hi Ross,
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Have a real conversation with your wife and make the point and you'd know where you stand in her life.
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09-25-2006, 05:38 AM
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Are you thinking that she is having an affair with someone else because she says that you raped her? Or is it really what you are thinking? Maybe she is just fed up with the routine sex with you and she didn't want to do the same things again. Try to see what is happening to her. When i don't want to have sex with someone, it means i'm no more attracted to him. Maybe it's just that she doesn't want you ...
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09-25-2006, 11:28 AM
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You cannot say so unless you have proof to back you up. She said you raped her and you think she is cheating on you. Both are hurting each other. Both of you are using very hard words to express your frustration. This is a bad approach your sexual problem. Start talking like mature couple.
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09-27-2006, 03:03 PM
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I think that you must have a serious talk with your wife about this situation.You must clarify this situation immediately.If you have no proof you cannot say that your wife is cheating on you and your wife do not have the right to behave like this.
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10-10-2006, 08:02 AM
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Why not follow her and see what she is really doing. Or go and talk to her sincerely and see if she looks into your eyes when she talks to you. If not, so she is hiding you something and for me you should hurry yourself to know quickly what is happening. Otherwise your marriage is over.
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10-10-2006, 08:12 AM
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You should be more attentive with the woman. and if ther is a problem you should be able to talk and then you should decide. what the next steps are. but do not forget that maybe she is cheating on you.
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10-10-2006, 09:05 AM
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I would really recommend you to question her sincerely... while if you are not satisfied.. you can still follow her or seek help from friends to know about what is going on... mmm.. you could also create a contact in the office where she works to know about what is going on there..
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10-10-2006, 09:28 AM
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Yes ancestra, that could be a good idea. Having a contact in the office. anyway, looks like something's not normal if she was carefree before and now, she just takes care of herself. Now, maybe she realised she was too much carefree, and decided she should change this. She is not necessarily cheating on you. She might have some other problems, perhaps at the office itself, to be irritating sometimes. Before asking her what's wrong, ask her if there's something wrong. Don't be too hastive to know what is happening, talk patiently and let her have trust in you, and feel free to tell you what's wrong.
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10-10-2006, 09:46 AM
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hey man, just be kool with ya lady. do not get excited or lose you mind. instead you shoud use it to kno whats happening and do not worry much about her. Let her free.
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