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Old 09-19-2006, 06:05 AM
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I have just joined the city for studies and I felt very lonely. And recently I met a guy and we spent a lot of time together. He keeps me company and I like that.

One day, he invited me to a party, but I left earlier coz I was feeling really bad. The next day he was furious against me. He told me, he wanted to have fun together with his friends. They all wanted to have sex with me on that night and that's why they have put some drugs into my drinks.

I hate that guy. I'm just wondering how cheap someone might become under the influence of drug. Unbelievable !!
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Old 09-20-2006, 07:14 AM
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He was someone who was only trying to abuse you since the very beginning. He never cared for you. It's cheap the attitude toward you.

Fortunately, you left earlier. Don't feel bad dear, it's over now.
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Old 09-26-2006, 05:31 AM
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Somehow we should be very careful coz there are some monsters out there which pretend and try to disguise into gentlemen. This is exactly what happen to you dear.

I really hope that this never happen again not only to but to any other girls.
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Old 10-10-2006, 10:29 AM
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This my friends is called Date Rape, you have absolutly ZERO recognition of what happened that night as the drugs puts some inbalance into your body so your completley forget everything. Pretty sad that someone would resort to raping a girl for sex....
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Old 10-10-2006, 11:11 AM
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In some way, it's your chance to have felt bad that night. That guy's not only cheap to have thought doing it, he even dares to tell you what he planned to do!! How far can people go? How bad can they be? I'm afraid to go to nightclubs, or sometimes just walk on the road, nowadays. Life's getting so dangerous. Take care Angelina. Fortunately you got out of this trap this time. Be careful.
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Old 10-17-2006, 10:34 AM
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Talking yeah man man there is watch out
gurl man is that it drug watch ouuuut If you say so then watchhh ouuut your so call boyfriend is watch out as you say there is drug the thing no to go with then u have sex then at what end of the part to be able to do
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Old 10-17-2006, 11:50 AM
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I am curious to know something Staan, if you do not mind, what is the"watch out" thing? Just out of curiosity...

angelina, did he not have weird behaviours with you for the time you had together? Ok, let's say he did not, his friends did not look like guys onto drugs etc?
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Old 10-19-2006, 08:01 AM
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that is pretty sick and twisted... you should inform the police, so someone else doesnt get raped... they may not leave early like you did....
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Old 10-26-2006, 11:11 AM
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Those guys don't know how to treat gals. Stupid minds. They're not romantic like me!!! Hey Angelina, you look sweet, be more careful next time. You could for example try to get informed about the guy before getting to know him more directly / personally.
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Old 04-05-2007, 08:06 AM
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It must be so sad for you but you’re lucky that his plan didn’t succeed. You would have been traumatized if a bunch of guys raped you while you were under influence of drugs. Go as far as possible from him and keep away from his friends, they might put you in dangerous situations. You will find somebody who will truly care for you and not use you like that.
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