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09-19-2006, 05:16 AM
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My wife, Eveyln, is a loving wife, cherish me, cook great dishes for me, shower me with love, she is a perfect wife for me.
On her first pregnancy she got twins. Two beautiful adorable daughers, whom I love real much. They are now 2 years old. I have noticed that she don't seem to love the children. Sometimes she acts weird with them. Screaming to them so badly, calling them names, sometimes she locked them in a room when they want to come out, leave them crying for long, always shout at them, and one day she has even slap the children which I don't think it is fair at this age. I don't feel she is caring for the children. I have talked to her but she said she is right, she is not doing anything wrong. 
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09-20-2006, 11:31 AM
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She might not feeling guilty about her acts coz she is the one doing it. Obviously she would say that she is right. But she is harming the children.
Encourage her to be more patient with the children. Might that she has got a lot to do looking after the twins, 2 babies at this age, is not easy. Help her when you get time or get a babysitter to help her if you can afford financially. She would be less nervous and feel more relax.
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09-20-2006, 11:35 AM
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Even, that does allow a mother to ill-treat her own children. If she has got a lot do she has to ask for help and not act like a monster with the girls. What have they to deserve this kind of treatment. They are only 2 years old, can't she see that as a caring wife.
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09-22-2006, 07:56 AM
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I just cannot figure out how a loving wife cannot act like a loving mother. Unless she is very jealous of your daughters. You give them lots of affection and care and she feels neglected. This is could explained why she treated them like that.
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09-24-2006, 08:16 AM
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I think that you should talk frankly to her about your views on her behaviour.Tell her that you do not agree on the way that she treat the girls.
May be she is suffering from some form of psychological problem that is making her behave like that.
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09-24-2006, 11:12 AM
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Well, i just dont know what to say. First you portray her as a loving wife and then her behaviour as a mother seems so strange. I agree with what Youyou said, may be she really needs some help. Try to take her to a psychologist. Is she facing any kind of problem? May be she is worried? You should act fast - the sooner, the better!
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09-25-2006, 11:12 AM
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Make her understand that is not acting correctly with the children. And also, ask her, how would she feels if someone else act like that with the girls. How would react. If a stranger or another member of the family slap the girls would she defend the children or agree with it.
Ask her stuff of this sort. ! make her realize that she is not acting like a loving mother.
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09-29-2006, 09:36 AM
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Good grief, you all seem to think that the children would just pop out and BANG she would be a good mum? Has it dawned on ANY of you that she may just not know how to be a good mum? Sure she is a good wife - however how long did it take her to be a good wife?
She problably is just having problems having two children. Give her a rest, maybe get some hired help....
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10-25-2006, 11:54 AM
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Ooh Poor little angels...
 Is she under some particular stress lately? Sorry to ask the question quite frankly, but did she want to have the babies at first? But from what you wrote, I guess the answer's yes. Maybe, since these are your first babies, she doesn't really know how to deal with this new Mum situation...
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