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Old 11-22-2006, 08:41 AM
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I'm asking myself the same question as Wish. So this was her first pregnancy. Did she react the same with the other children?
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Maybe she is facing problems taking care of two kids at the same time
This is not a reason for treating them badly. In a way, they have not asked to come on Earth and less for being treated as such.

Geraldo, you've talked to her which is right. But you could try helping her more and at the same time show her how it would be better to act with them! It's nice for you to feel spoiled by your wife but if you want your children to be treated better, show her!
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Old 11-24-2006, 09:28 AM
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maybe she is finding it difficult to cope with two kids at the same time. it is not that easy to take care of two kids at the same time. i believe that she is getting frustrated. you should help her and tell her not to worry. you will be there for her to help her take care of the kids. make her understand that if she will behave like this with the kids then they will hate her and not love her
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Old 12-06-2006, 04:08 AM
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I don't think it's about difficulty of taking care of two kids at the same time. It's more, according to me, about having difficulties in taking care of children that's all. She seemed to be "lost" in her "duties" as mother. It was her first pregnancy. that may be the reason. I hope it goes on better now. The husband should have talked to her and made her see what she's doing and guided her/ helped her out somehow as to how she should manage this new-at-that-time situation. Hope he did and succeeded in making her change her ways.
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Old 04-09-2007, 09:18 AM
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I don’t think it has anything with pregnancy. I’m sure it must be something that happened in her childhood! Her parents must have treated her badly for to think it is “normal” to treat children like that! But you have to show her how to treat children as she doesn’t know how to!
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Old 04-10-2007, 11:45 AM
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you must tell her to be patient with the children its at this age that most of the children are often mischievious she must talk to them not slap them for the children what they are doing is fun they dont know whats right or wrong you should help your wife doing this job its a bit difficult to look after two children at the same she will then be lenient to them.
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