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09-18-2006, 12:13 PM
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Hi Guys, i am worried about my wife's behavior regarding our baby!
She just gave bith to our lovely baby girl one week before and we already decided about the name before but now she doesn't want to here about that name, so strange! She is now looking for a celebrity name....... She is behaving in a weird manner, spending the whole day sitting there and staring our daughter, she did not even let me touch or hold her in my arms yet, she seems like someone else baby, somehow, i know it's an horrible thing that i just said but i she is forcing me to believe this! 
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09-18-2006, 12:54 PM
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Poor you! You must be feeling terrible. Well, even i cant explain your wife's behaviour. It should have been a special moment for your couple - when the baby comes at home. Was she stressed during the pregnancy? Or is it that something is bothering her? I believe that she must be facing some problems. I would advise you to get medical advice on that matter as soon as possible - else it may be too late.
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09-19-2006, 07:15 AM
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I don't really understand Jammy, in what way you think that the baby might not be her own baby. You have witnessed that she got pregnant and how come that you are getting such strange feeling.
Get this off your mind. Don't think that way. She is just a little bit shaken coz you know pregnancy and delivery is extremely stressing for a woman. Give her some time.
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09-19-2006, 11:48 AM
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Hi Jammy, did you ask your wife, why is she behaving in such a weird manner, as you are the father of the child too then why stopping you from touching your own child? You badly need an explanation!
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09-22-2006, 03:04 PM
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I think that you should talk to your wife about this situation and make her understand that you also have right regarding the baby.
May be this is a psychological effect of the birth of the baby.You should try to talk to a counsellor.
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10-09-2006, 04:03 PM
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Hi jammy.Hope that you are fine.You should try to remove all these negative thoughts from your mind.It is clear that it is your baby and perhaps your wife is a bit possessive.
You should talk to her about this and try to understand her also.
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11-21-2006, 10:24 AM
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I agree with pompom that may be the wife is a bit possessive.It is not rare to find woman after having given birth to a child neglect their husband to care more for their baby.I think that may be that is happening to you and that is why he is not letting you having time with the baby.I think that talking to her could help you in this situation.
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11-25-2006, 05:46 PM
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well jammy. when a woman has delivered a baby she is not mentally stable. usually she needs a lot of support. it is not easy to deliver a baby u know. men only know how to make babies but cannot imagine the pain we women bear to bring them to this wrold. be with her and support her dear.
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