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Old 09-18-2006, 11:57 AM
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I am in the finance department and very ambitious guy! I recently came to London just for the sake of my wife who insisted, thus i had to bow down.
But since we've come here, i've been a timewasher, hardly holding down jobs for more than a few days.
Now, she is being nagging me all the time for all that; saying London was a place to have fun, not to be earning a living!
I am fed up, she doesn't even care for the futur and expenses, i just want to leave her and come back to Australia!
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Old 09-19-2006, 07:15 AM
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Hi ambitious Ronan, relax, may be your wife wants you to enjoy a bit as you are always working, she is woried about you and this shows that she really care for your entertainment and cannot see you overload with work. Listen to her and enjoy yourself as much as you can and when you come back to your respective country, you can continue with your work!
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Old 09-19-2006, 07:47 AM
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Make her understans that there a time for everything. She cannot just enjoy, having fun especially life is big city is ain't easy without enough penny. So you have got to work, earn a living, and for the rest of the time you could enjoy together.

Hope she understand and be co-orperative with you.
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Old 09-20-2006, 05:25 AM
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Hey my dear friend, you shoud be proud that she is not the kind of woman who nags or pesters her husband for earning more and more money, she wants you to enjoy life with her and forget about the world of money and she is absolutely right.
My girlfriend was not in love with me but only with money, what would you have done in such circumstances?
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Old 09-20-2006, 10:04 AM
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I'm sure this would do good to relax a bit and have some fun with your wife. Might be that when you are in Australia you spend too much time at work, don't have have for her and now you are together in London, she is so excited and happy to have you by her side. Thus she want so enjoy. Share the fun with her, it's not something you normally do very often.
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Old 09-21-2006, 10:09 AM
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Having fun for couple of days with your wife, won't make you bankrupt my dear. There are certain things if you miss in life you can never get it not even if you have a lot of money. So don't miss anything.
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Old 09-22-2006, 07:44 AM
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I don't think your wife is irresponsible, why do you think so.....too much work is not good....you got to slow down a bit. Earn a lot of money for the future is a good plan but don't spoil your day becoz of this. Cheer up
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Old 09-26-2006, 07:06 AM
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How would you feel if she go out alone and told you that you she would like to have some fun. ? I bet you wouldn't be happy.

So, you know what you should do !
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Old 09-28-2006, 01:04 PM
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I think that your wife wants to enjoy life and to have some fun.May be you are too ambitious and concentrate too much on work.
Be careful because I have heard a lot about marriages which were destroyed because one of the partners worked too much.
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