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09-18-2006, 11:19 AM
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I have just shifted to my new apartment, i mean my boyfriend's apart, in another country! It was ok, the second bedroom was big enough for us to stay, and i was sure he would respect my working space and let me go on with things. Well, my first week has been interesting, i would say it's very different, work is going on ok, the flat is lovely and it's a mixture of American and European influences here! Not what i expected at all!
I was wondering if i could ask him to come with me back to my native place, but he seems to like his city a lot while i don't want to stay here! How should i convince him to leave his country? 
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09-18-2006, 11:29 AM
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I would sugges to stay couple of month with him into his new appartment and then one day you could ask him to visit your country. You could only suggest him for a holidays. Then, afterwards you could really convince him to stay in your country.
Give him the opportunity to like and discover your country first. Then gradually you could talk seriously about the real goal which you have at the back of your mind.
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09-18-2006, 11:44 AM
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Loving someone is synonymous to understanding your partner and coming to a compromise. I think you should look for the right moment and discuss the matter with him. Express your concern to him. If still he is not convinced, you can tell him to give it a try. Mention that you shifted for his sake, and he can try doing so too. You have to be patient with him. Neverthelss, if he cant adjust in your country, you can always try some other countries. I wish you all the best.
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03-31-2007, 06:54 PM
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if you didn't want to be there then why move there in the first place? why didn't you leave it to be a long-distance relationship or something like that?
 and if you have decided to make the move, why are you changing your mind now? i think if we make a sacrifice or rather a compromise, we should go all the way with it. or not do it at all. it just complicates the whole matter 
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04-03-2007, 10:46 AM
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I 100% agree, i think its a little to soon for you to think that you dont love his country. Its not where you are in the world its who you are with. If you love your b/f you should be able to fall in love with the courty...
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04-04-2007, 06:47 AM
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Well dear, i know sudden geographical changes can be haunting! but try to take the time to at least learn the scenery..perhaps its much better...well the bottomline is that heaven is where your beloved stays...that's real paradise
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