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Old 09-18-2006, 08:13 AM
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My husband has been involved in several residential developments, financed by local business people with some spare cash to invest. Now, he wants to go solo and and make big money on a project of his own, so that he could retire in comfort but he is not thinking of his children, what would happen if he do not succeed in his project?
Should i talk and stop him from doing what he has in mind?
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Old 09-18-2006, 08:29 AM
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Indeed - you must try to talk to him. You see, things could get worse if the business does not go well, or if he goes bankrupt. Indeed, we get all tempted to start a new business and thus provide all the comfort to our family. But i think you should look for the right moment to approach him. He may end up telling you that you dont want him to succeed in life. One advice that i can give you is that too keep some savings aside, just in case.
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Old 09-19-2006, 07:26 AM
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This is business Chrissy, i don't think he would jeopardize his family for his business, he must have already enquired or thought of a way not to be at loss.
Instead from stopping him, you should tell him to save some money for your children futur and safety.
He is only thinking for his family's benefit for doing so!
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Old 09-19-2006, 08:00 AM
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Sometimes in business, if we don't take risk, we don't achieve our goal. Of course we have to weigh for the pros and cons, which I pretty sure he has done coz he doesnot seem to be new in handling his business.

I would strongly advise you to support him. He is your man, your husband and the father of your children.
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Old 09-20-2006, 05:17 AM
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Keeping his family in mind, he might be thinking that there is so much to do and so little time, all he is doing is for his family and children, thus he must have thought well before adventuring in this new project.
The chances that he would succeed are higher, be with him in his project and hope for the best.
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Old 09-20-2006, 10:10 AM
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I don't think you should interfer too much into his business although you are his wife, you have the right but since you are not so confident about what he is doing, you should not discouraged him.

He is in a much better position to know where businesses are more profitable. He might mistaken but even though this should not be a reason to drop what he intend to do.
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Old 09-23-2006, 05:17 PM
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I do not think that you should talk to him to stop him but to warn him.In this way he could be more careful in his decision.If you make as if you know everything I am pretty sure that he will not listen to you.
You can only guide him.
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Old 09-26-2006, 06:26 AM
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I guess you must have heard this saying that behind every successful man is a woman, so be there to support and encourage him. You might have doubts but you still have to be by his side.
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Old 09-28-2006, 02:26 PM
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I thinkn that you should trust your husband.He knows better than you what he is doing.Sometime in life you need to take some risk to gain something.
I agree with Jazzi you should try to support him and believe in him.
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Old 10-11-2006, 08:52 AM
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I think if he has been involved in these projects for awhile now and he has looked into all aspects, you should encourage and support him in his business venture. Sometimes, nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Good luck and good fortune to both of you.
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