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Old 09-15-2006, 10:24 AM
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I am here to talk about my sister who always suspects his husband having a roving eye.
I had been keeping an eye on my brother in law for some days but it was all false, and I realized that it’s only my sister’s obsession, and if she continues, it might drive her crazy!
She even took my help and several times have been spying him during his office hours; in the afternoon and the funniest part in this is that my brother in law never goes out alone during weekends!!!
I fail to understand why is she reacting like this, as she very knows that her husband is only hers and till now she didn’t get any proofs which show that his husband is a cheater!
How do I explain to her, should I tell my bro in law about her conducts???
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Old 09-15-2006, 11:29 AM
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See, the best proof of love is trust. And when you love, you should trust. Ok - your sister has been spying over him for a long time but in vain. I think its high time that she stops being the spy. Is there any reason why she is behaving as such? Was there any relatives in the family who was unfaithful? I believe that you need to discus the matter with your sister. Make her aware that if she continues doing so, her husband may be fed up with her and eventually, leave her. In case you see no improvements, then you can talk to your brother-in-law. Reminds me of a quote - If you love someone, let him free. If he is yours, he shall come back. Else, he was never yours.
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Old 09-26-2006, 07:35 AM
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@ hope if you trust a man, you'll lose him and btw the woman may be acting this way because her husband had an affair before or she may be the one cheating
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Old 03-31-2007, 07:09 PM
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or she might just be damn paranoid. tell her to get a grip, relax and get a life and start trusting the man she has chosen or sooner or later she's going to lose him if she keeps on harassing the poor guy like that and then she'll be biting the fingers right off her hands for acting so damn paranoid
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Old 04-04-2007, 10:00 AM
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Telling your brother-in-law about his would complicate things as the husband will be angry about him being spied and everything. You shouldn’t get into their problems, deal with it with your sister and make her understand that if she hasn’t found anything against him, that must mean he did nothing wrong. Maybe your sister misinterpreted some event when they were together.
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Old 04-06-2007, 09:18 AM
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Maybe you could talk with your brother in law to know how the situation in the house is but I agree with what darling_ said about complicating things. How would you know that he doesn’t cheat if you don’t live with them? I mean, he could do things that make your sister doubt the faithfulness of her husband and you wouldn’t know about that.
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Old 04-10-2007, 01:06 PM
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or she might just be damn paranoid. tell her to get a grip, relax and get a life and start trusting the man she has chosen or sooner or later she's going to lose him if she keeps on harassing the poor guy like that and then she'll be biting the fingers right off her hands for acting so damn paranoid
i hear ya pal

she's insecure maybe?
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