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Old 09-15-2006, 09:03 AM
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This year is the second anniversary of my divorce. I am still in love with the man who was my husband for 5 years.

Sometimes I feel that I should have never divorced him. But what was I supposed to do, coz he had an affair with my neighbor. Things were becoming so dirty that he left me and settle down with the woman.

I was alone drowning into my sorrows and tears because I love my husband and we were having a wonderful life together.

Lately, the woman cheated on him and she went away with another man.

I still haven’t met any other man and I hope to make the same marriage work the second time around.

Anybody ever experience such experience. Was it successful?
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Old 09-15-2006, 10:48 AM
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Hope is a great thing. Hope is not the conviction that something will turn out well, but the certainty that something makes sense regardless of
how it turns out. I have never experienced something of this sort but go for it if it make sense to you.
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Old 09-15-2006, 10:57 AM
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Hi, i can see that you are madly in love with your husband. I wanted to ask you something. Despite the fact that he has broken your trust once, will you be able to trust him once again? See, i believe that the foundation of any relationship is love and trust. You are in love with him, but what about his feelings? Is he trying to get back to you? Seems that you are willing to give your couple a second chance. Ever asked yourself/ him why he has been cheating on you? I think that since you are still in love with your husband, you dont want give the chance to other men. My advice would be that you meet husband and see how things turn out to be. Wish you all the best.
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Old 09-18-2006, 11:59 AM
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I think by doing so he might think that you love for him is a weakness and he might comes back to you and then don't hesitate to cheat on you again. This is a big risk which are taking if ever you seriously want to settle down with him again. He has cheated on you with your neighbor, this is so cheap and in my opinion you should not get back to him.
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Old 09-19-2006, 09:12 AM
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I guess if you seriously would like to get back to him. You need to get his opinion as well. If he share your feeling then you may go ahead. His opinion also counts a lot. What if he does not agree to get back to you again. Think well before you plan anything so that you get deceived by his attitude.
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Old 09-19-2006, 02:49 PM
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I entertained the thought with my first husband, after my second divorce. It was to hard to iron out out bitterness.
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Old 09-21-2006, 12:15 PM
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If you intend to get back to him, pray God that he don't make the silly mistake again. Once is enough, and he is very fortunate that you have forgave him but this should stop.
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Old 09-24-2006, 01:32 PM
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what is that thing of anniversary???????????
i never heard of such an anniversary.
does anyone celebrate a divorce anniversary??????????///
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