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Old 09-15-2006, 08:14 AM
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Layna and I have been married for 2 years. We love each other real much.

Just after we have moved to more comfortable house, she has lost her job because the company has closed down. She has got another job but not getting the same salary. We are facing serious financial constraint. We are nearly bankrupt. We have huge mortgage to pay.

Last Sunday, we were invited for dinner with an ex-colleague of mine, Jack Nicholson who is now a famous businessman in California. I was accompanied by my adorable wife.

To my great amazement, Jack kindly proposed me to lend him my wife for one night. And he is ready to pay me the amount I wish for spending only one night with my dear wife. We were so shocked that we had to left earlier without saying a word to him.

In car, we were thinking about that but we made no comment. Then after a long moment of hesitation, my wife was asking me what I think about Jack’s proposal.

We were both thinking that this would sort out our financial problem but on the other side we love so much. How can I agree that she spent a night with a stranger?

What am I supposed to do?
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Old 09-15-2006, 09:56 AM
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Hmmm !!! that is tough. Coz on one side you love your wife and on the side it's an opportunity to sort your financial problem.

Nevertherless, I would still tell you that under no circumstances you should agree to this proposal. Its against the moral values.
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Old 09-15-2006, 11:54 AM
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He knows that you desperately need money thus he is taking a chance which I find bad. The fact that he is wealthy and successfull business person, he could have simply helped you sorting out your financial difficulties.

Unfortunately, he wants something more. I don't think your wife should be used as an object, he gives money and you give him your wife (even if it is only for one night). This is my opinion.
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Old 09-15-2006, 01:20 PM
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Hi, seems like the story of a movie. Well, i have a question. Would you be able to accept your wife again, knowing that she has spent a night with another man? That the other guy has touched her, has made love to her? Will your relationship be the same after that one night? believe me, this one night may break up your relationship. Lovers don't bargain their love. Money problem is not the end of the world. I believe that your love is strong, so fght for it. Why dont you two take up a part time job?
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Old 09-15-2006, 04:15 PM
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You should not do that.You cannot sell your wife for money.This man is cruel and a monster.if he wanted to help you he will have done so without asking you for your wife.I think that there may be other ways to come out of this financial trouble.Certainly not by trading your wife.
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Old 09-19-2006, 07:35 AM
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You better go bankrupt than giving your dear loving wife for just a second to a stranger. Coz this act you would regret it for the rest of your life. You better remain hungry for a week than to allow your wife to sleep with a stranger with your consent. This will definitely kills you coz you gonna have it on your conscience for the rest of your entire life. Beware !!
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Old 09-19-2006, 07:41 AM
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Listen Anthony, i know how distressing it is to be in financial problem, but you should not lend or sell your wife, your life partner only for some money!
There are many other ways to make money to repay your mortage, you should not come into that vulgar man's talk, one thing is sure, if someone would have proposed me such a thing, i would have given him a big punch on his face!
Money should not come between you and your wife!
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Old 09-20-2006, 05:36 AM
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Spending a night with a stranger would create a vast distance between you and your wife, your financial condition might get stable but your marriage relationship would surely deteriorate, there won't be the same love and passion between you two. And by the way, this is not something to be done, it's disgusting.
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Old 09-20-2006, 09:53 AM
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Spending one night with the guy will not make her stop loving you. Think about it. We all know that it is not moral, it's your wife, etc. But somewhere it is big opportunity to solve all your financial problem. What does your wife think about that, her opinion also counts. The fact that she asked what do you think about the proposal gives an indication that she is not fully against it. Don't take it as if you are selling your wife, consider it as if your wife has cheated on you for one night. Though it really hard but not impossible I guess.
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Old 09-22-2006, 07:48 AM
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You will surely sort out your financial problem but you are taking the big risk of loosing your wife whom you love so much.

Money you cannot have a lot with time, but the love of someone you cannot buy with the amount of wealth you have.
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