I hate liars because they lie So if i say that i am a man, it is a white lie? When i say that i have no boy friend, it is a black one, even if he is far in Australia and i'm in Singapore?
I think lies shouldn't exsist as they destroy people lives. If only all people were honest life would be so much better.

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“Ordinary riches can be stolen, real riches cannot. In your soul are infinitely precious things that cannot be taken from you.”

Merry xmas to Oscar Wilde

Your boyfriend, your husband, your friend, people around might tell you something which might not be true. Sometimes it happens that you do it yourself. So, we've all did it at least once in our life.

We lie coz sometimes the truth is too bitter and we tend to hide behind something which is not true. Or sometimes we don't want others to get hurt by the truth. and so on.

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I love you...I hate you...I can't live without you.
I breathe you...I taste you...I can't live without you.
I just can't take it anymore, this life of solitude.
I guess that I'm out the door, and now I'm done with you.

One thing i know about lies is once you start lying even for a simple cause or to avoid an argument, you will have the tendency to lie each and everytime.
One lie is followed by hundred lies and for me a lie is a lie, there are no white or black lies, i do not believe and agree with these lies!

There is actually black lies and white lies. And I bet that you must done it yourself in the course of your life. Don't say no. Coz it is part of human nature.

There is nothing wrong, absolutely nothing wrong is saying a white lies coz in some cases you don't have any other choices than to say a white lies to avoid hurting your nears and dears.

A simple example I give you, let suppose you receive a call from someone you hardly want to talk at that particular moment, you would say that you don't want to talk to him or her or you would rather find some other things to say, not to hurt him or her. Here you go, dear, this a white lies. You did it just to avoid him or her feeling hurt. No harm in it

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Marriage is the only war where you sleep with the
enemy.

I have been a liar all through my marital life. I don't love my husband. He knows it, but i won't ever be honest with him because he will be hurt. Even if he knows that i'm lying, i think it's good things that i hide my true feelings to him. What if he commits suicide when i tell him that i don't feel anything for him?

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Edgar Allan Poe said: The true genius shudders at incompleteness - and usually prefers silence to saying something which is not everything it should be.

Rowan is so right when he says that lies can lead to unsolvable problems. You can dive in such a big abyss when you lie, that it will be nearly impossible to come out of it.
Xgirl, what if your husband commits suicide coz you don't tell him the truth? What if it becomes unbearable for him to handle the fact that you don't love him as you said he knows that you don't have feelings for him?

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If you want something said, ask a man...if you want something done, ask a woman - Margaret Thatcher

people lie when they can't tell the truth. truths at times can be fatal and dreadful and in some circumstances it is far better to tell a lie..for the betterment of others and for own..for the profit and welfare of everyone. at times, one lie becomes better than a hundred truths. still, there are many types of lies. the white lie is a small innocuous lie most of the time. it is used to crack jokes with friens and april fools

Some people don't even know how to appreciate jokes made on 1st April ... This makes me realize that people changed a lot and don't know how to enjoy life anymore ...

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If you want something said, ask a man...if you want something done, ask a woman - Margaret Thatcher