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Old 09-11-2006, 04:54 PM
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Financial matters are very important things when you are married and it gets two times more complicated when you remarry as your partner has long standing money management practices. He already has a way of spending money and his budget is already predefined ( thing that is very difficult to change especially if he has more than 5 years of marriage).

Couples should take time to discuss about this important matter before marrying, even more if money was the major cause of divorce in the previous couple. Different levels of income as well can cause a problem as maybe one would not want to appear greedy and the other too selfish.

To do a good remarriage,you should not forget to discuss about financial matters as it is a very important thing in couples life.

What are your views on it?
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Old 09-13-2006, 08:39 AM
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Thanks God i am not married yet, then i won't have these kind of problem!!! That's true that people difficulty change their habits, but i did not know that it was at this extent. Life is so strange.
I think that it is a good idea to talk about financial matters before getting married or remarried especially if it can cause problems

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Old 09-14-2006, 09:20 AM
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I'm an expert in dealing with money. I don't think i'll have any problems when i'll divorce, if ever i will be able to do so someday. Money is a very important thing in life and i advise all women to be very careful on that part. Don't ever let a man control your money.
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Old 09-15-2006, 11:04 AM
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I think that beside finance there are other things which contribute to a good remarriage.

The couple should genuinely feel committed to form a partnership, to support and nurture each other respective personal growths. There must be also a very good reason for each other to get married again. Mistakes which were made in their previous marriage might be rectified here. All these small things could add up together which would eventually make a good remarriage.
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Old 09-19-2006, 09:21 AM
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When a couple is getting re-married, I guess they both should make the effort not committing the same mistake they make in their previous marriage.

The people involved in the re-marriage might be different, the situation might be different from previous ones, but the foundation of marriage remains the same. Communication, honesty, loyalty, and trust should remain there.
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Old 09-24-2006, 01:32 PM
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you are right splash money often plays the role of the villain in a marriage.
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Old 09-25-2006, 09:37 AM
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Money can destroy a couple's relationship very easily. It's the most dangerous virus in a relationship according to me. I hope my boy friend and i will be able to keep a good control of our money.
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Old 09-27-2006, 11:24 AM
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What if you don't have money? People who are poor don't have such problems am i right? The best solution for money problems in a couple is to be poor What do you think about that?
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People who don't have money are not supposed to be getting married first of all because without money you can't live. People who are poor starve sometimes and that ain't good too. I think that your idea may be a good one if you explain well what you just wrote
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Old 09-29-2006, 07:00 AM
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Money is an essential thing in life, but we won't die without it. If we have just the sum we need to survive, this is a very good thing. If we have more, it is still a very good thing as well. Our fortune does not have any impact on our lives if we know how to spend it according to me.
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