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09-11-2006, 11:25 AM
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My hellishly saintly mother is the worst person I’d known, she has never shown any love or ever cared for me, the only thing she taught me in life is religion!
Since childhood from adolescent, i have been obliged to learn about her religion, and i have been listening to only one thing, that is "have respect for your religion and never be against it." Now, she is against my boyfriend who is a non believer of all these things but he do respect her and her religion and her point of views! Despite all this, she is not satisfied and has requested my boyfriend to leave me and that's what he did. I am totally shattered and can't live without my boyfriend who gave me so much love than my mother, i will never forgive her for what she did and i am thinking of going away from her!
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09-11-2006, 11:38 AM
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Stop thinking of going away, just go ...
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09-12-2006, 03:56 PM
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Hi Tearstains,
I can not believe that you let her destroy your relationship!!
Anyway what kind of mum is she?Doesn't she realise that her child's happiness should be much more important than her beliefs and anyway what is this God that teaches her this kind of behaviour!!  Leave her and live your life,I think that you have enough values to know from right from the wrong...
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09-12-2006, 04:00 PM
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Do you actually believe in any religion after what you've been through?Why did you even care of introducing your boyfriend to your mum???She must be insane..OOPs i know it's your mum, but I'm sorry, she seems to be to me...
I would have never seen my mother again in your position as she really knows how to make a guy run away and fast....
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09-12-2006, 05:23 PM
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your mother got a problem in the head. you should tell her that you respect all her point of views, but you actually have yours as well and she shoud not impose her decisions and choices upon you. but if your boyfreind actually care for you and can't live without you and love you as much as you love him, why would he give up? he shouldn't have left you, but instead try and try because those who are in love never give up!and yeah, religion unites poeple and that religion is love..that's the BIGGEST belief..not norms!
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09-21-2006, 09:07 AM
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Whether one believes in religion or not, whether one believes in this religion or that religion, the very purpose of our life is happiness, the very motion of our life is towards happiness.
What the point that she is a strong beleiver and cause pain into other people life. Knowing how to respect others is the basis of all of all faith.
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02-21-2007, 03:08 PM
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I feel the pain you have of a loveless mother, that really does make for a sad situation! I would follow your heart hun and go be with this man if he makes you happy!! Your mother is probably alot like mine and would like to keep things under her control? Well, once you take this step and go against her you will feel the backlash from your mother. But you are grown and it is time to feel the love you so desperately deserve!
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02-22-2007, 04:45 AM
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Lots of stuff and talks about religion, and I guess that consequently you got stuff and talks about being good etc... So before going to the one who truly loves you (thing I will also advise you to do), just send her back the things she made you learn, like God didn't ask to separate lovers, God is Love and not separation or hate towards individuals with opposite beliefs and opinions..
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02-23-2007, 07:24 AM
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Hello brokendreamsnah, yeah nice forum indeed..
 Would you like to share some opinions and ideas with us on any topic in here that might arouse your interest?Tearstains, your mother is not the only one who seems not to care about others' happiness, but your boyfriend (or ex boyfriend) looks like he cared more about himself than your couple or you. He didn't seem to have fought enough, because the way you're telling us this story, it looks like as the mother asks him to go, he just goes. Has he even tried to call you back??
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03-14-2007, 09:55 AM
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well its your life i believe. and according to me you have the right to chose the one you want as your life partner. your mother will not be with you all your life. you will have to be alone at some point. and what happens if she marries you to someone who is as strict as her?? you already spent so many years in that hellish type of life. now you will continue with a husband who is a copy of your mother????? no dear move on and find your life and live it the way you want to not according to your mother.
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