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09-11-2006, 10:58 AM
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Evelyn, my adorable loving wife and I've been married for nearly 8 years. We never cheated or have any previous sexual partners. We have had our ups and downs recently, but had a honest discussion about our need and wants from marriage and life in general. Everything was sorted out.
The other day my wife said that she would like to have sex with another man, just for the experience. I was so shocked that I couldn't say a word.  Should I allow her to do this or what should I tell her?
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09-11-2006, 11:34 AM
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09-14-2006, 11:40 AM
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For sure, i will not be able to make love to her the same way. Things will certainly changed. As a man I would not bear my wife sleeping with another man.
I'm also thinking that if she has asked me something like this, despite that everything is going on fine between us, I don't feel the courage to stop her. Coz for me the intention was there and it might be that she fancy making love with another man, which I consider wrong and immoral.
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09-27-2006, 03:06 PM
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I do not think that everything is working fine among you collin if your wife has told you something like that.There need to be something wrong in your couple or in your wife's head.It is the first time that I hear something like that.
The best thing to do is to seek help from a counsellor.
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09-27-2006, 07:30 PM
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Hi Collin,
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I've always thought I was a liberal woman but that shooks me off!! Are you going to let her have it her way!!
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09-28-2006, 06:51 AM
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Hey Collin,
My ex husband cheated on me ( and that would be what your wife is doing cheating on you, you are supposed to be in a monogamous relationship in a marriage) after I found out he had slept with another woman I couldn’t look him in the eye never mind having sex with him, I completely lost respect for him. I honestly think that if your wife has sex with another man that would be hate end for your marriage..... Just my 2 cents though....
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10-10-2006, 07:56 AM
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I am just thinking why she told you that? Some persons like to experience new things and it is becoming like fashion nowadays. Only you can decide to or not to let her do this. For me I would never let her. I will only asked her what she is missing from me to go to another man.
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