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Old 09-04-2006, 05:03 PM
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Hi guys, Trudy here, I found this forum the best one to get the answers to my question, here it is;

Some years before, i met Lily, a beautiful and gorgeous lady, well i couldn't believe my luck when i found herself being courted by me!
We got married and soon after her fierce jealousy propelled me to leave her, vowing never to see her again.
Now, two years later, i found her again and she still arouses her most primal passions as well as me but i fear her jealousy.....
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Old 09-04-2006, 05:25 PM
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Hi Trudy, Welcome to the forum. By being jealous - you mean she is over possessive? She cant see you talking to other ladies? and what does she do in such circumstances. Theres a rule in love - Dont go for the looks, go for the heart which will make you lose a heartbeat. I guess you know what to do. You are attracted to her physically, may be its an infatuation. So i would you to be strong! and dont fall for her so-called beauty.
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Old 09-05-2006, 08:02 AM
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Too much jealousy is fatal to a relationship. Well, you could get together with her but before it's better to have a conversation with her. Make her understand that you have break up with her formerly due the her serious jealousy problem and if she wants to settle down with you again she has got to change a bit.
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Old 09-05-2006, 10:53 AM
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Where there is jealousy, there is love Trudy, her jealousy shows you how much she loves you and you should reciprocate to her love and before that you should make her confident that you are only hers but still if she doesn't understand this may be you should take her to a psychiatrist!
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Old 09-05-2006, 04:32 PM
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Hi Trudy,

If you want to start again with her, she should put it clear with her that her jealousy has destroyed you once and if you want to give it another try, those mistakes should be avoided. Sometimes jealousy makes you feel special and wanted but too much is a nuisance to a healthy relationship.
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Old 09-05-2006, 04:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Trudy
Hi guys, Trudy here, I found this forum the best one to get the answers to my question, here it is;

Some years before, i met Lily, a beautiful and gorgeous lady, well i couldn't believe my luck when i found herself being courted by me!
We got married and soon after her fierce jealousy propelled me to leave her, vowing never to see her again.
Now, two years later, i found her again and she still arouses her most primal passions as well as me but i fear her jealousy.....
It seems that the flamme is still there but are you sure, you want to go back to all this trouble as if it's her character, she surely has not changed.Some people can not stop from being jealous,even if they try very hard. Have you got the courage to live through this again if she's still the same???
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Old 09-06-2006, 06:31 AM
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Two years since you left her and tell me, during these two years, did you meet another one, i mean, another woman, someone to give you company or you have been missing her terribly? These are questions you should ask yourself to be sure if you wanna get back to her or not!
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Old 02-27-2007, 08:20 AM
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Jealousy can be a good thing when it's a proof of love. But then, when it becomes excessive, it becomes the most powerful love-killer ever. All things in excessive extent can be destroying... In a relationship where one partner is extremely possessive or jealous, I think that before quitting anything, the couple must take time to discuss about it, efforts must come from the two sides, compromise is the first solution to try.
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