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Old 09-04-2006, 12:58 PM
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I have married for two year with a handsome man. Everything was going so fine until recently he has started drinking a lot. Since then everything has been devasted gradually. He comes home late, sometimes some people drop him home coz he is so drunk.

He is disgusting. In that horrible state he used to force me to have sex with him otherwise he would yell and smash things and even he would beat me so badly. I have made a complaints against him but it seems that nothing is being done, he is still the same.

When I talk about divorce with him, he beat me even more.

I don't know what to do.
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Old 09-05-2006, 10:24 AM
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why dont you try having a police protection for yourself?????
you should go to the police and lodge a complaint against your husband and tell them how he treats you.
usually the law is very strict about abuse against women.
go ahead you should not be scared of your husband and you should save yourself from all that.
be courageous dear!!!!
good luck
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Old 09-06-2006, 10:59 AM
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As long as you let him to take control on you, this would never stop. You should leave the house, stay somewhere else, to a very good friend and then you seek protection from the law.

You are the one suffering so you are the one who should move away from him.
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Old 09-06-2006, 07:08 PM
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You should find a protection order in the first place from the police as this might turn out to bring more harm to you.
Then you should try to treat your husband as it is not nice to abandon him in this hell.You should try to help him.
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Old 09-07-2006, 12:08 PM
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All of you are right here!! You ought to do something to protect yourself Kareena!! This is called sexual abuse!! You are not only being tormented physically but morally as well!! You can't just let your husband treat you like this!! You are a human being!! Even animals don't deserve such treatment!!! He doesn't have the right to this to you though you are his wife!! You should put an end to this rapidly if you really want to get out of this situation!!
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Old 09-08-2006, 09:33 AM
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Go and ask help from the police because even after you talked to him he did not understand. the situation is very alarming, dear!! Leave him and that would just teach him a lesson..he may even realise his mistake. Abusing you physically is a big offense and he needs to pay for it! As for his alcoholism, try to persuade him to follow a rehabilitation course..if he doesn't, its his loss.
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