You are right he has a real problem with your daughter and you cannot just sit and watch it like in a movie dear. This is happening every day. This attitude of him would sure coz a negative effect upon the character of your child. So you got to do something.

Which ever ways he has to stop acting like that. You have to let him know it's not worth staying with a man who cannot treat your child well.

I don't think if you leave him, you would be unhappy. Coz living with him is making you and your child miserable. So better leave him.

I think that you as the mother of the girl should talk with your husband and make him understand that he is hurting the girl with his attitude.It is not that because the girl is her step daughter that he should put pressure on her.I think that you should not lose time in doing this to avoid your daughter suffering more.

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Hi Myrella have you been able to sort things out? Understand the true reasons of his behaviour? How are your days going on lately? Does he know your daughter's father? Maybe he never liked the guy, and your daughter reminds him of the guy. But that's not a valuable reason according to me..Your daughter is just a child after all, and one (anyone) should not "throw" his/her frustrations upon a child. Make him realize she's just a child...and that it is not right to do so, whatever the reason...

Tell him to take it slow with your daughter, he shouldn't make your daughter feel like she's unwanted like that. When you married he knew about your daughter, no? It isn't as if you had cheated and pretended or is it? Maybe your husband has a real affection problem, he feels that he should love his son only but you have to make him understand that he's the father figure of your daughter and he should act as such.

You have to talk to your husband about what you feel. Maybe he isn’t aware of the hurt he’s inflicting on her. How can anyone hurt a child purposely? If he’s doing it on purpose, then you have to make an ultimatum with him, either he heals himself by counseling or stopping to nag the girl or you will leave him and take the son with you.

Not only her but her daughter as well! Her daughter is suffering the most with all the remarks of the husband and seeing that the mother has done nothing to stop it.

You should have a serious talk with that man. Your daughter will get traumatized with that situation. She is a kid and if that continue she may hate man. Talk you him and look forward for a solution. Every problem has a solution.

You right the man has a problem, but she must not leave her husband like that. Every problem has a solution. Take it easy and look for the advise of an specialist