Oh Uncle, this is so sad, what do i tell you now, may be you should take care proper care of yourself, cahnge your style and looks to appear more younger and i am sure your wife would be in love again with you. Take her on holidays and enjoy yourself as you were doing before, take her to her favorite places.
Your children are grown up enough to look after themselves!

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"If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were."
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After so many together, I don't think that she is serious about that. I'm sure that through out life both of you have gone through some adversities of life. Now may be that she don't find anything challenge, so like Amber is saying, you have reached a stage in life now where you should enjoy every minute. You must have retired by now, so enjoy your freedom, go on holidays, visit some places, move around with you wife.

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Hi Lorenzo, you are nearly to become granpdpa and now you are thinking of breaking up. Leave this for the young and immature couple.

No, this does not fit for you. She might has said it but I damn sure that she does not mean it. Ask her to fall in love with a you again, do romantic things which you used to do when you were dating her. This would light the fire again.

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Oh no Lorenzo, divorce is not meant for people like you. 30 years and your nearly to have grand children now, and both you should be the good example for your grand children.

she might be a little bit tired which is understood after so many years coping with a relationship with all the ups and downs. But I'm absolutely certain that she does not mean what she said.

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I love you...I hate you...I can't live without you.
I breathe you...I taste you...I can't live without you.
I just can't take it anymore, this life of solitude.
I guess that I'm out the door, and now I'm done with you.

Hi Lorenzo, i felt concerned reading your story. Is it that she wolke up one day and she told you that she has fallen out of love with you? Or is it that something happen? You had a love marriage or an arranged one? I believe that she is going through menopause and she is confused. she is at a loss. You should help her. Does she seem depressed?

have you tried asking her the reason why she wants to split with you?????
maybe she has a reason for it. you can also try to seduce her once again as you might have done before getting married. be affectionate and show to her that you still care for her and love her a lot. try to awaken those dead feelings in her about you. maybe it will work out for you.

Hi Lorenzo, reading your problem make me feel that love does not last forever. We say we will love our partner til the end of time, this is the promise we made infront of God on the day of our marriage but over the years this promise tend to become very fragile, like in your case.

I'm very much younger than you and I have never experienced such a long time relationship with someone, I thought that with time, the bond tend to become stronger. I think you have to do the best in your ability to save your marriage.

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Love is like the truth, sometimes it prevails, sometimes it hurts.

Why according you could make your wife come up with such a sad decision. There might be something which could have triggered something like that. You have to find out with her or and in this situation I guess the help of your children might be necessary.

Hi Lorenzo, i am so sorry for to hear that. I wonder why she wants to split now, after 25 years of married life. Are your children aware of their mother's decision? What do they say? I dont think that she has come across someone else! well, my advice would be to discuss the matter with him - and if need be, seek counselling to help. Above all, fight for your love. I wish you all the best!