Hi Ash, people say that the best proof of love is trust - do you agree? I can imagine what you are going through. Did you have a love marriage? The fact that today this lawyer is your wife proves that she loves you. How does she react when you quarell on that matter? I would advise you to talk to her about your fear, about the fact that you feel insecure - she must know how you are feeling, All th best

Ash, your wife loves you otherwise she would have left you long ago or would not have married you. She must have loved you for getting married to you and to be jealous of her is quite natural but not to the extent that you start doubting her or nagging her.
Show her how much you care for her, be a gentleman and not a crazy guy!
Last thing, trust on your love..

Yes another word for love is trust..

Yes I know she loves me and she does lots of things to show her love to me

When I fight with her she every often don't say anything she keeps quiet and let me talk...like a crazy person

Its that jealousie is stronger

I don't want to tell her I don't want her to be worried

Hey Ash you must be happy you've got a beautiful wife who loves who cares for you. You are both in an interesting field and since the job you do I guess both of you earn good money and and have a good living standard. In my case my wife left me due to lack of finance. Anyways if you continue like that you will only be a loser and you will be left alone. Don't wanna scare you life is short spend romantic moments instead of fighting.

Ash, i think that she must know that at times, you feel insecure. She is your better half, she is the one who understands you - so must must discuss that matter with her. How long will you be able to go on like that? Roaming around with the fear of losing her? Talk to her and you'll feel better.

Assumptions are termites in a relationship

YOu are jealous at the fact, she is beautiful. instead you should be proud of her. Either you mend your behaviour or you tell her honestly what you think. since she is your wife, she will understand you. BY the way she wil give you the assurance she loves you and she will not leave you, But its you who must change, what do you expect her to do stay at home, stop talking to her colleagues lawyers or what..its all in the mind and you will have to remove that.

Hey Buddy no worries its because you have just get married, that's why you are feeling like this. With time it should be ok. NO need to tell your wife with your behaviour she will already identify it and on top she is a lawyer. Jealousy should be present in a relation but too much can cause harm.

Well it's said that there is only one line which separates love from hatred!! So I guess it's the same thing when it comes to trust and jealousy!! Everybody has got a small part of jealousy and trust in him/her!! Actually there are few people who tend to develop/emphasize more feelings in one of these sections!! My b/f always old me that he was never jealous that other guys who looked at me and or talked to me or were trying to go out with me for he trust me 100% Actually a few weeks ago i came across a friend of mine whom I haven't seen since 15 years ago; since we left the kindergarten/ pre-primary school as wish!! So we met at a music rehearsal which was going to be held in four weeks time. He talked a bit about all and nothing, our achievements in life since that time, it was nothing really bad!! After a couple of weeks he asked for my mobile number!! I gave to him out of suspicion or extra friendship thoughts!! 30 mins later he would start sending me sms and did so all the weeks long and far more often than my b/f did!! Well at the very beginning I shared it with my b/f for we don’t have any secret for each other!! Actually he started being nervous because he was jealous of this guy!! He new him quite well and he didn’t trust him!!! I was so happy for he NEVER, EVER NEVER showed any sign of jealousy before!! So I really felt that he loved me and that he doesn’t want to lose me!! Actually the other guy was exaggerating fat too much and told me that he would like to go out with me and that he wasn’t insensitive to my charm and stuffs like that but I didn’t believe him!! So I told him that I was already engaged and that I didn’t want in ant circumstances to hurt both of them and that he ought to stop sms me. I love my b/d and we want to share our future together and I don’t want anybody to destroy this in any circumstance!! Somehow he didn’t stop at all but he continued infrequently but I no longer answer him anymore!! I’ve still got him num on my phone just to identify his sms and calls whenever he would do it again!! Actually my b/f is aware of the whole story and we agreed that if he still continues to bother us aging we are going to talk to him both personally and tell him right in the face what we think f him!! He didn’t call up since one weeks and it’s a good thing because I won’t keep my lips from insulting him now!! Well I was a bit long in order to show you that trust can spare a couple from many trivial conflicts for the sake of people who are contemptible of it!! Hope i have been of help to you buddy!!

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Hello all I won't tell you lots of thing but one thing is sure marriage bring disaster..why married and then get jealous..what the hell is that...Better you don't get married stay single and enjoy life..am totally against marriage