The problem here is that you don't feel like making love with your husband, is this because of the second birth of your baby or you lost interest in sex?
To know more about this and yourself, you will have to consult a sexologist who will find out the exact dilemma and the solution too.

Are you a working women??? are you stress????

Actually stress causes a lack of interest in sex.

Or you don't like the way your husband makes love you????

Hey Linda you should wear sexy dresses this will please your husband and this will make your husband wants you more. For your problem, why don't you consult a sexologist or any person specialise in the field can help you. why don't you try viagra Hey it works once I took that and ....I won't tell you too confidential ...YOu can eat seafoods especially oyster I have heard there is something in that which helps to boost up the libido...

you must surely do something to restablish your libido. but one thing its true your husband needs sex but a good husband will not leave the wife because she is not being able to have sex..instead if he really cares for you. he will show you, that you are more important for him than sex. I think Its because of the second birth of your baby everywomen encounter this and with time everything will be ok.

This is because of your delivery..things will be ok..give time and try to work out things with your husband...why don;t you try viagra...

Before you take any drugs, Viagra or otherwise, you might get a check-up and be sure nothing is going on physically. It is not unusual to go through what you are experiencing after childbirth etc. Then, find a good book or therapist who can help you jumpstart your relationship. The Sex Starved Marriage offers lots of great advice (I found it on divorcebusting.com) ...you are not the only couple going through this:) Lots of luck

It's very good that you realize that there is a problem in your couple and you wish to sort it out. Sometimes it happens after the birth of a child the woman loose interest in sex. But this should not last too long coz this would coz harm to your marriage.

I would suggest that you visit a gynecologist or a marriage counsellor as soon as possible. I'm sure that there are some treatment for this.
Another thing as well, you should communicate with your hubby, don't leave him in the dark, coz he might think that you don't love him anymore or you are trying to avoid him.
Make him aware about this problem and together this would be sorted out.

It could be that you are tired coz you are busy looking after your second child. This is very stressing. This might making you depress and this might be enough to make you loose interest in sex.

Or even I would suggest that you go on a weekend for holidays so that you may put yourself in the loving mood again.

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Hey Linda, you really are killing your marriage cause if there's one thing that a man can not live without surely is SEX whatever they might say.
Be creative in your love/sex life, do things that you were doing at the beginning of your relationship, I'm sure that at that time everything was ok.It's not a real problem, therefore solve it before it becomes one....
Good Luck Friend...