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08-17-2006, 09:06 AM
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My field helps me a lot in preaching this. Am I confusing you lol..forget it
Lets come to the point. Many people says lack of finance leads to divorce..sure its one of the factors can crop up divorce. So according to you, who are responsible the individual itself or the society…Money matters can be settled accordingly but do you think people use money as a way to escape… “For example there is a young couple who got married last year. The girl does not work and the husband is a clerk and now they have two children.. the husband income’s is not sufficient and they are finding it harsh to live as a family…and they are thinking a divorce for their own betterment as they mentioned.” What I would say well beforehand they knew life would be hard but still they decided to get married ..so what do you say friends here are they to be blame, or its their fate to be separated. Your opinions !!!! 
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08-17-2006, 12:44 PM
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I respect your point of view, but sincerely Depress, i think the couples are being responsible for their acts, which lead to divorce, can you explain to me how does society cause divorce???
The reason for so much divoce is the fact that many people are getting married at younger age, without giving a thought of what would they do in the future or not!!! They fall in love, so much love that they can't live without each other, they get married and this is from where the problems start! So, the conclusion to this is that they have to be well settled and enough mature to go for marriage relationship, do you agree???
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08-18-2006, 06:44 AM
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These people need to be punished..as you mentioned, they knew wellbeforehand that they were are going to face a difficult life BUT Still why did they get TWO CHILDREN..they have not though about the children. If they get divorced who will care for the children???? Tell the wife to search for a job poverty is not forever and on top of that they did love marriage IT’S A SHAME ..THEY ARE A LOSER…
Now coming to the point of marriage, I would suggest you girls and boys not to get married at a young age. The age 26 is the best age to get married, this is because you are mature and you are sure about your feelings for that person….and also you can save money build your house then you are ready to get married.
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08-22-2006, 10:48 AM
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Theres an old saying, love conqers all, if they truly love each other, they will not be willing to seperate. They will find a way around their money matters. maybe family could help out in the short term. Remember, where theres a will, theres a way, and life aint easy......
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08-25-2006, 05:54 AM
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Its true life is not easy at all, cost of living is rising, money depreciates lots of economic factors that contribute to make life harsh. BUt money matters unfortunately is indirectly causing the divorce of so many couples and when I say indirectly, this is because, when there is a lack of money to budget the house, this causes tension and stressed and as such conflict arises and both couple start fighting and what they think its they are incompatible but they don’t know the reason is money. Anyways the couple has mentioned, that they will get divorced. In so doing will they become rich??? Have they thought about the kid. Can’t they take a loan??? A help from a friend!!! And what about the woman does she work.?? If not she will have to find a job.
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08-25-2006, 09:26 AM
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I have an auny who always used to tell me, that people should get married when they are ready to get married. By 'ready' i mean financially secure, mature people. Love is not everything in a marriage. Of course, love is a first requirement - but its not EVERYTHING! Well, i believe that YES - the couple is to be blamed. They had to think before getting married, and making two children. Its not easy for the husband to make both ends meet - hes the only one working. Divorce is not the solution - the children gonna suffer! Cant the wife take a job?
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08-26-2006, 12:02 PM
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Yes I agree with Pariss people should marry only when they get financially secure.in this way this will remove a lot of unnecessary pressure once they are married or when they have a child.
in the case above,i do not think that divorce is an answer.they will not get more money if they divorce.It is well known that united we stand,divided we fall.
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08-29-2006, 07:49 AM
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Hey that's a nice saying united we stand divided we fall...
Anyways So depress give us some news what is happening with this couple I think by now they are already divorced!!!! Keep us update
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08-30-2006, 10:06 AM
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09-28-2006, 02:14 PM
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Jada is right.The wife could have find a job-even a part time one and help the family.It would have been a lot better than to divorce.
Anyway the society that we are living in nowadays does not permit a wife to stay at home as in the past.Both partners have to work.
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