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Old 08-16-2006, 04:44 PM
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i was head over heels in love with my boyfriend. And the love was reciprocal. We got married and so far, have a happy married life. But nowadays, i have noticed that theres a change in my husband's behaviour. He is no more the same loving guy that i knew. I did ask him if there was someone else, but he said NO. The fact is that he spends his time working; even while being at home - he works

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Old 08-16-2006, 07:09 PM
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He might be busy with work, but you are not as busy as him, so try to seduce him like you used before, do things that he used to appreciate or like, i guess he is bored with the routine, thats why he prefers to forget himself in his work, everything is in your hand, you can bring that same enthusiasm in him as before..
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Old 08-17-2006, 12:16 PM
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Despite though a couple is married, the partners need some space. I am sure that you will agree with me that everyone needs some free space - even though you are happily married. I will advise you not to panick. Give your husband some free space, and if still, after some time, you feel insecure, look for a suitable moment and talk to him. Tell him about your fear - he will surely comfort you and give you all the love, care and support needed.
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Old 08-18-2006, 10:24 AM
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How long have you guys been together and how old are you? Your husband can be trying to help your finantial situation and sucure your life ahead of you.
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Old 08-18-2006, 04:45 PM
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I am in my late 20's and we have been married for 3 years now. I guess that i should understand him. He always wanted to give me the very best, all the comfort and all. He also want to succeed in life. The fact is that i feel neglected when he spends all his time working. I start having negative thoughts.
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Old 08-18-2006, 04:49 PM
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Thanks for your reply Helen. May be you are right - i should try to get him out of this monotonous life. But he is hardly at home, he leaves for the office in the early morning and comes back quite late. And as you may guess, he is all tired. I just dont know when to talk to him.
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Old 08-18-2006, 04:52 PM
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Thanks for replying in Desperate, and thanks for the support. I never interfere in his personal stuff - i know that he needs some space. Well, am not panicking, its just that i feel concerned and at times, i get negative feelings. Hes hardly at home, when do i talk to him?
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Old 08-24-2006, 12:01 PM
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You seem to be a very young lady and got married at an early age, you should explain to your husband that material things do not count for you, stop working so much as he is neglecting you without even knowing it and you only need his love and affection. Despite this. if he continues with his boring behaviour, then it's up to you.
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Old 08-26-2006, 02:56 PM
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Richie is right.You should try to make your husband understand that you are not interested in material things.Open your heart to him,talk to him about your feelings and desires.
you should try to seduce him as you did before you were married and bring him out of his working life a little.

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Old 08-31-2006, 10:09 AM
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I can understand how do you feel when not receiving love and attention, it's a stressful situation, he would't even drop his work for you, why don't you leave him for few days, go for a holiday far from him and enjoy yourself, only then he might miss you and realise that he has been unfair to you.
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