well well you are grown up girls now.. let your dad get married,,he is mature so he knows with whom he is getting married....you too will get married one day and will lead your life so let him be happy

society is here just to judge people. you are not going to spend your life with society. so if you want your father to be happy then i think that you should let him remarry and live in your new family. the one who cares about society will never be able to do anything in life. its your life not the society's so go ahead.

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If you want your dad to be happy let him remarry and why are you scared?You are not the only ones who have a step mother and step brother or step sister.I have some friends like you and they are very happy and love their step mother,so don't be scared and enjoy life

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Originally Posted by Zack ""We've fallen in love and want to get married,"" dad said! But he wants our blessing and says that if we don't want him to get married then he won't! Both my sister and me wanted him to be happy so we told him what he wanted to hear. I thought Leany, my sister was ok with the idea but she wasn't! She liked Connie, but she knew the ramifications far better than i did. A mixed marriage would make us social outcasts. We would now have step mother, step brother and step sister! We are really scared!

If you like the woman too, well no worries. Religion doesn't have to interfere in love. I, myself have muslim roots, but i don't practice. My parents come from Casablanca and are very religious. All my previous girl friends aren't muslim, but i liked them a lot and it didn't cause any clash. You have problems if you think you'll have problems

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Oh do not worry, things will work out for the best. Look upon your step mom, step sis and step bro as friends and be yopur natural self. However you can talk to your dad about your apprehension. Tell him that you have no problem in him getting married but ask him to give you some time to adjust to the situation, get used to the new family. And do not be bothered about the society.. remember always that we make the society and not the society makes us. Mixed marriages are very common thses days and so you'll NOT be the odd one out.

See, we always hear bad things about the step mothers and all. But i guess that you have to be positive for the sake of your father. He needs a life partner, he is taking a second chance - so you have to support him. Even he needs to be happy. Well, i believe that the society is all, and you have to be least bothered about that. You go your own way, cause your father needs you too!

Yes, there are good step parents on earth thanks God, my parents just got divorced and i'm living my country very soon with only one of them and that is so sad. I hope that if ever my parents remarry, they will both meet nice persons who will love me

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