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Old 08-07-2006, 10:47 AM
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Am depress depress and depress…I live on pills nowadays …Am Hart from los angeles 5o years old father of two children and am really sick with my wife and children…. I really need help otherwise I’ll die from depression…my wife and my sons drink a lot,..my two sons Andy 22 and gary 25….they don’t work and so my wife they are heavy drunkard and they are making my life a hell….I have try my level best to help them but no avail. I love my wife and kids…should I leave them and live my life without them or should I continue to bear them in the hope that things will get better…am desperately in need of peace.

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Old 08-07-2006, 06:36 PM
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What happened to your family so that things deteriorate like that? What kind of problem do you have? I may be of some help. How long have you been on pills? Did it help? I'm so sad when i read what you wrote. Do you work? Please reply to me coz i don't liek when people suffer that much
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Old 08-07-2006, 08:20 PM
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Yes dear..while they are drinking like that? Please let us know...we should analyse the root cause first..try to keep cool..there certainly should be a solution out there..

Be patient..there should be much facility after difficult times..
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Old 08-23-2006, 08:23 AM
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This is a strange and sad situation to see both your sons as heavy drunkards, they did not even start living their life yet and are about to end it.
Is your wife responsible for their plight, or someone else? You should take your two sons away from the one who is bent on destroying their lives.
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Old 08-24-2006, 05:31 AM
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Well if you are fed up with them, there is two solution, either you leave them and live your life, o r stay with them and bear them, if you have try your level best to make them stop, and they didnt care about it then i think its high time to forget them. let them have their own lesson. some people are sometimes too much..they should be given a good lesson.
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Old 08-24-2006, 06:37 AM
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Yes dear..while they are drinking like that? Please let us know...we should analyse the root cause first..try to keep cool..there certainly should be a solution out there..

Be patient..there should be much facility after difficult times..
Yes the root must be identify first of all before reaching for a final decision.

So tell us why your sons and your wife drink a lot there must be a reason!!!
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Old 08-24-2006, 06:44 AM
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Am depress depress and depress…I live on pills nowadays …Am Hart from los angeles 5 years old father of two children and am really sick with my wife and children…. I really need help otherwise I’ll die from depression…my wife and my sons drink a lot,..my two sons Andy 22 and gary 25….they don’t work and so my wife they are heavy drunkard and they are making my life a hell….I have try my level best to help them but no avail. I love my wife and kids…should I leave them and live my life without them or should I continue to bear them in the hope that things will get better…am desperately in need of peace.
YOu will have to stop that pills otherwise you will become addict like them...
Why don't you put your sons and wife in a rehabilitation centre this helps you know..
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Old 08-24-2006, 08:05 AM
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YOu will have to stop that pills otherwise you will become addict like them...
Why don't you put your sons and wife in a rehabilitation centre this helps you know..
Yes That's a point

Anyways leave them and live your life

They've got brains if you continue with this relationship, am sure you will turn like them..why you must suffer while they are enjoying.
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Old 08-24-2006, 08:25 AM
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Yes the root must be identify first of all before reaching for a final decision.

So tell us why your sons and your wife drink a lot there must be a reason!!!

Hello Linda I didn'y expect so many people will help me with that kind of problem I have..

My two sons have become a drunkard because one her fiancee passed away some two months and the other has lost his job..

The first one says he will die he can't leave without her fiancee this is why he is torturing him like that.

The second one was a policemen, he lost his job because he took bribe...

And as far as my wife is concerned, seeing her two children in this state has made her become a drunkard.

SHOULD I BECOME A DRUNKARD AS WELL
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Old 08-29-2006, 06:24 AM
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Oh gosh this is call a family in destruction, !!!
No you can still do something for them..

For the guy who lost his fiancee, send him abroad...he will encounter new friends,a new life and this change of air can do him good...and he may love someone else...

For the second son, who lost his job, he should be send abroad as well..here he will face humiliation and he won't get any job...by going abroad, he will start life afresh and will find a new job..


as for the wife, her remedy lies in the remedy of the children..if the children are fine, then she will be fine...

Think about it and tell me !!!
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