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Old 09-14-2006, 04:59 PM
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Well you can't really do anything to help because it is thier family business. you know that surely.. By the way the dad's behaviour is reprehensible.. they are his children so how come a woman he's just married starts dicatting behaviour and her wishes all over the house. the guy is simply a coward. if he firmly says NO to his wife, she'll have to understand. Try to talk subtly to the dad.
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Old 09-18-2006, 04:56 PM
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you are absolutey right kyoze. this is what should be done in reality.
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Old 11-27-2006, 05:27 AM
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I think that the others is right.You should have told the dad what was going on in his house.If you were afraid you could have send an anonymous later or complain to the police.By staying quiet you have agreed to let the children go to a boarding school far from their dad.Despite all this it is not too late to tell the truth to the father.
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Old 11-27-2006, 08:30 AM
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Where was the father when that ***** used to ill treat or removed her frustration on the children?
Yea that's a question I'm also asking myself!!
I think the father himself was dominated by the new wife.

Even if you have witnessed the situation, like someone said here, you can't just enter some family business though it would be totally preferable, and I guess you feel sad not being able to do anything, "allowed" only to witness this.

What I will say is just that the guy should put in more authority in the situation. He should have a kinda "louder" say, I don't know, but he should find a way to make himself heard by this woman and make her understand that she does not rule anyone there!!!!
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Old 04-05-2007, 07:45 AM
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I'm sure the father would have left that woman if he knew what she was doing. Children shouldn't keep quiet about things that important! I feel so sad reading this thread! :( How can she be that mean? I can't understand people who are mean to children, they are innocent onces who know about next to nothing to life, why give them a dark perception of life?
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Old 04-09-2007, 09:21 AM
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It’s really irritating to see that people have such cruel heart in this world. The children approved of the father getting married, she should be honored and treating them right, not abusing them like that! I wish I could take that woman and beat her! How can one treat children so badly? Why doesn’t she love those children? She shouldn’t be separating the father and the children.
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Old 04-11-2007, 09:41 AM
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the father should not allow this because its his children nad she has no right over them to behave like thjis with them make her understand that his children need him he is their only support after the death of their mother. the father should try to konw whynis she behaving like this.she knew that your neighbour has two children why did she marry him then? what was the reason for his marriage.
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Old 04-19-2007, 05:54 AM
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My heart breaks when I hear stories about children like that. They should be protected, loved and not manipulated like that, what kind of opinion will they have of life if they are faced with such complications at an early age? People like that woman take away the innocence of these children and ruin their happiness…

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Old 04-19-2007, 10:58 AM
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That woman is a real *****!!
yeah...u r right she's really a b****,actually I dn't swear but here it makes me really angry 2 hear that ...how can she do something like that and didn't the father say anything??? Did he accept that his children go 2 a boarding school without defending their cause??I'm sooo sad for them !!!I think that the children should have told their dad about that *****,how she's really!!!
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Old 04-20-2007, 10:04 AM
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I cannot bear to see children unhappy!!!And above all seeing men be ruiled by women,that will be the limit!!!Especially when it is a witch who control the husband!!!Don't get me bad people,it is just that is innacceptable.By the way I don't say that men are superior to women,it is just that I believe in equality of gender.I am sad for these children!!! they must be missing their father!!
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